One aspect i really like

I really like how in some stories in the aftermath some characters are like "it wasn't really good". I feel like it adds a realistic touch in terms of how when you experiment it wont always turn out to be the BEST experience. I also like how the other person doesn't take it deeply? Idk i just think it's really cute how the person topping/bottoming can express their opinion without the other feeling super personally affected + how sometimes some people like bottoming with a person and they prefer it that way.