Yes! Topping from the bottom is totally possible.
Replied to the wrong comment, my bad. But yes I fully agree.
THIIIIIIS. Also tired of the bottom role being seen as a “punishment” or somehow “lesser than”. Hate that “I’m too cool and manly to be the bottom, so I’ll make you do it” mentalities, it’s so 90s yaoi. Yet it’s 2025 and not much has changed in BL. Enough, is enough. Bottoms are powerful! It can be a lot of damn work to do it! Sheeesesh
i mean, as an explicitly bottom man myself, it makes sense. but i do agree, its overdone and its so annoying that these men are always unwilling to bottom and its like “losing your masculinity” which, isnt ghe case at all. even for myself, bottoms should be proud of it and should be allowed to take control! power bottoms rise up!! imo a dominant bottom is so so hot. and switches are ADORABLE! being able to see both sides of your partner and give them all of you, so perfect
lowkey ? id let my partner ride it LMAO. im still a bottom but im willing to let them choose and see that other side of them. i NEEEEED that in yaoi more !!!! putting my REAL ideas and such into my own yaoi is the goal atp. time to drown myself in making a yaoi manga just to prove it can be done
The losing your masculinity thing by being a bottom is genuinely so exhausting to read through every manwhas because taking it up your ass does nawttt make you any less masculine its insane, it lowk also again goes back to heteronormative shit where the one who gets the dick in them is the "female"... which not only sounds off for queer, especially mlm, couples but also for women
Bottoms or tops genuinely shouldn't be an enforced gender role or define your masculinity/femininity, its sex! I agree with u and unless its a stated preference in the comic itself or between a person, there rlly shouldn't be anything stopping u from pleasuring ur partner lol. And ur second comment just made me lol, so real and so true
100% yaoi loooooves to shove queer relationships into a heteronormative box with those defined roles where the bottom is “the woman’s role.” It’s also highkey misogynistic since that’s then seen as somehow less than the big alpha top who has “the man’s role.”
Episode 8 is how most manwhas should go tbh, mlm couples (also for wlw couples but switching is lowk common in manwhas for my girlies) should't be bound to either heteronormative positions (feminine bot masculine top) or being non experimental with it especially when either guys involved were willing anyways