Hi, I think your feelings are valid. Initially, I thought you’re just being selfish for not getting a game controller, but when you said that your sibling will immediately get what they wanted while you seldom asks for things but wont get what you wanted, that was really unfair for your part. It’s a different story if your siblings also dont get what they wanted, but when they’ve only done that with you, totally unfair.
You're not wrong chat. Honestly my only advice would be to start showing you can be independent too, i'm sure you are but you gotta stand for urself. Don't let them get into you like that, you strong
hi. is it bad to be a mad at my mom for not buying me a game controller? i first asked my dad for it and my dad told me he'll tell my mom about it and i knowif he tell her, she wont buy it EVER. i know it sounds bad, but it's always been like that for as long as i can remember. if i ask for something, she'll always say, "yes, we'll buy it later" and not buy it at all. if my siblings ask for something, after a week or two, they'll have what they asked for. : ( it just feels unfair. i can count on a single hand for the things that i asked for since i was a kid, and not a single one of them was bought. i never asked for much. i only ask for things if i think i earned them and if i really want them. i mostly asked for something if i graduated or if it's my birthday (its not like every year i have something that i really like).
so, is it bad? i'm just so fed up. at some point, i just stopped asking her for things maybe when i was 16 or 17. so, that's that. i'm just mad. : (