agree with that statement
Spot on, I was thinking the same thing
Exactly
I agree with your point but exactly which part I’m missing out that Seijin wants Ido to beg? I was under the impression that Ido was always willing to let Seijin go because he feels guilty and Seijin despite his affection for Ido, chose to also leave Ido because he felt their relationship was dysfuntioncal, isn’t it healthier for them both that way. I’m really liking how Seijin’s strong character for all he’s been through, saying he’s a drama queen is totally degrading.
Sejin leaked secret company info (Ido’s company) to his adoptive father… Absolutely, Ido messed up, but so did Sejin… That was really bad, and Sejin could have gone to jail. The amount of attempted mind-reading is insane, even for BL…
Our boy spilled company secrets and deserves jail time but ML refused actual justice.
So that he could keep him, make him suffer, hurt him with sex and bonded them against his will.
He also let someone else get away with raping him and pretty much blamed him. When he got pregnant, he said it was fine because they looked similar enough.
These two actions are NOT the same.
He isn’t even being punished in this new life. Our boy just wants to be left alone mostly. You can miss the person who hurt you without wanting to see them. This is actual victim blaming.
He is not being a drama queen for breaking up with him and leaving. Everyone should have that right.
Exactly. Calling a rape victim a drama queen is just so ????.
Everyone has the right to leave a relationship. He didn’t even ask him to beg, he just asked if he had choices and then made the choice to leave.
I agree with you completely
I still dislike how everyone blames Ido. He is not the only one that has to set things right. Is anyone aware that he, just like Sejin, is a product of his upbringing and that, unlike us readers, he knows about 10% of what is going on in Sejin's head? Sejin said it himself, they can feel each other's emotions but don't read each other's mind. You want him to beg? For what exactly? He is still unclear about what exactly he did wrong. Not because he doesn't think he is wrong but because he does not understand Sejin and what Sejin needs. And why doesn't he understand Sejin? BECAUSE SEJIN WILL NOT COMMUNICATE!
Relationships are built on communication, honesty and trust. Without communication, the other two don't exist. Sejin himself admitted that he still had feelings for Ido, yet he left, ONCE AGAIN, without actually communicating. He kept his thoughts to himself and walked away like the drama queen he really is. At this point Ido bears the responsibility for what happened in their first run, the way he acted, how he treated Sejin, perhaps for not insisting on being given more details and for jumping to conclusions. He was (and still is, sadly) going off of assumption. However, Sejin I responsible for the mess they are currently in. He refuses to clear the record and blames Ido for not reading his mind.
To be clear, I'm not saying Ido doesn't have to atone for his mistakes, past or present. He does! I'm just saying Sejin needs to speak up about what is going on in his head. Without that Ido cannot even beging to know where to start atoning. And I'm not saying this only in the context of Ido getting Sejin back. Think about it. How can you expect a sincere apology or atonement, when the other party doesn't understand what hurt you in the first place.
And don't give me the "he should know". He shouldn't. Again, different backgrounds, different upbringings, different life perspectives and different experiences. That is why we have invented language fss, to verbally express ourselves so that others can understand us as much as possible.