I feel lost help

URMOM September 29, 2025 4:46 am

Ok I know this isn’t the best place to vent but is it normal to feel rlly stressed lonely and overwhelmed about having to pick major and going to Uni I don’t have much time and I know taht I wnat to have a degree and make money it’s just nothing interest me and I. Have 0 passion in anything by grades aren’t the best either I have no idea what I should major in it has been been stressing me out so much lately taht I can’t sleep I have no one to talk about this with and I feel scared lonely going to Uni and about my future being unemployed not being able to find a job yareeee yareee I’m in a point in my life where I feel so lost I rlly hate having to go to Uni it doesn’t exits me at all but I must since I don’t come from a rich background and idk I just don’t know what to do am I overthinking, reacting for stressing so much can someone relate or is in the same position:( ?????? I know it’s privilege to able to go to Uni but I feeel too overwhelmed by everything

Responses
    Loch Ness Monster September 29, 2025 4:57 am

    Hun, that feeling is completely normal. That sense of having no direction or passion. But it's not where you want to be forever and it's not where you will be forever either. You just need to weigh out your options. Grades aren't half bad and that's good. It means, if you set your mind to it it can be great. You can turn a hobby into a passion. If you like working with people, seeing results, working with money like finance or accounting, like promoting stuff with marketing, you can even take up languages, or even something to do with environmental sustenance for a random pick. The list is endless. You can even reach out to the uni and find out what each major entails and what the prospects for the future are. I know you prob have unanswered questions and you just need some answers to guide you. But take a deep breath and go one step at a time. Once you have more information, I'm hoping it'll be easier for you to narrow it down. I wish you all the best. (づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ. (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

    Lunini September 29, 2025 4:58 am

    Im so with you on that, I dont feel connected with anything, I honestly took another year because I was so indecisive on what to do, the program im planning to choose I honestly don't know if I like it or not I just felt forced to choose it since its the closest one I think ill like, I dont have the answer but I hope it makes you feel better to know ur not alone

    URMOM September 29, 2025 5:04 am
    Im so with you on that, I dont feel connected with anything, I honestly took another year because I was so indecisive on what to do, the program im planning to choose I honestly don't know if I like it or not I... Lunini

    Thank u i feel like people don’t talk t this enough so it gets overwhelming and lonely I hope u will like what u chose

    M4KA September 29, 2025 5:17 am

    hey !! don’t worry about not being able to choose a major in time, i know it’s really stressful because it seems like such a big decision that you’ll have to live with for the rest of your life. i was like that last year, overwhelmed and scared for the future, but seriously, a matter like your major is something that can be easily adjusted. at first, you can settle for a major you wouldn’t mind doing, or just choose to be undecided. you have so many months, and even years to change it according to what you feel suits you best. i did the same, i chose to major in data science at first, but found that i wasn’t particularly interested in stem, so i changed my major to criminology instead. there’s always an option to change majors before you begin school, or even after you begin!! so take your time and don’t stress too much about it, you have lots of time to think deeper and figure out what path you really want to take ヾ(☆▽☆)

    fwopfwop September 29, 2025 5:28 am
    Thank u i feel like people don’t talk t this enough so it gets overwhelming and lonely I hope u will like what u chose URMOM

    This point in life is really delicate, it can make or break your future, but honestly, as long as u overcome one hurdle at a time its doesnt look so bad. And its normal to feel stressed, its your future, of crs. But also know that u dont have to force yourself to race with everyone else, do it at your own pace. Also tbh passion is very fleeting. I entered my program (architecture) as my own choice as a naive freshman but now i srsly just want to pass and regret my decision tbh. But i will pass, at this point idk if i even want to practice. And its okay. I have no idea what my future holds i try not to think as much cos its overwhelming, but i try to tackle one problem at a time. Which rn is to graduate. Whatever my future holds idc, its not my passion anymore but smth i will do cos i have a lot of stuff i want to buy or do, and that my motivation rn. Lmao. I digress, but girl just chose one logically, motivation and passion can be acquired elsewhere (like bl or manhwa or stuff) good luck!

    Lunini September 29, 2025 5:40 pm
    Thank u i feel like people don’t talk t this enough so it gets overwhelming and lonely I hope u will like what u chose URMOM

    Glad to help! The people in your comment section also help me think about what im about to do, thx for being brave enough to reach out and ask.