Because they are friends, that's why, what Bear said pisses me off. I know in this case, he will end up falling in love with the assistant but I know if I personally learned that my bff had a crush on me and then dropped off the face of the earth, ghosting me and all, I would be fucking CRUSHED cus she's someone Im close to. I'd probably cope similarly to Frenchie over here.
This isn't just losing an employee, it's losing a best friend of like 15 years, so what Bear said is just hella fucking insensitive in general
I know it's not just about losing an employee; I've lost friends I've had for years. I was upset, most definitely, but I took a look in the mirror. Part of getting over something is reflection, seeing the pros, the cons, what went well, even better if's etc. He's not doing that; he's relishing in self-pity, that's what makes him irritating to Geon. Yes, you lost out on having him as a friend, but he had to pick himself. He couldn't stop loving you romantically, and being in a friendship when your intentions aren't platonic is toxic, so he left. it was hard for him, too. Wanting him to stay/come back when you can't offer him that is horribly unkind, and again selfish. Hey, I'm not saying he can't be upset and sad, I'm simply saying Geon wasn't wrong, and i don't think it was insensitive. No one was giving it to him straight Sometimes you need someone else to hold the mirror up so you can take a good look at yourself, ya know what I mean?
i put a shurg emoji so idk way
Yeah I get that, but Geon should not have been that person, they are not close, he had no right to act so rude towards him. It felt like telling a person going through a breakup to "get over it" it was still disrespectful as hell imo
Everyone saying bear is wrong is just ... no. Heo is being selfish. The least you can do if you truly care and RESPECT someone is let them go if you can't meet them halfway. 12 years is a long time to stand next to someone you love and have them not see you. Now I'm gone, you get to mope around feeling sorry for yourself??? Seo had to watch you futilely chasing someone happy in a relationship, and because his love was real, he wanted you to be happy even though it hurt him. In the end, you lost to Bear but still couldn't let that go. Why should he stay? The final result was a loss Geon won but you still didn't look his way. He had to FINALLY pick himself. Now he's gone, you're seeing his love and care for you everywhere, suck it up!! If you love him even as a friend, you should be wishing him well in whatever he is doing, not feeling sorry for yourself; even now, you're only thinking about yourself. Bear was simply letting him see the bigger picture. He was so tunnel vision on his first love, he treated seo like an assistant frfr not just his work, but also in his attempts to get his first love to love him back, and now Seo is gone, you're smelling his suits and clenching his pillow? LLOOOOOOL PLEASEE. This isn't the behaviour of a man who lost a friend. Get real, that's all Bear is saying.