how where when why
WHEN
WHEN?!?!?
I remember no such thing, though? and I've finished reading the novel
Are we talking before they were together with xinlu?
That could be it, Ilay has always been too obsessed to cheat on him lmao;; the most he does is being very open about his sexuality and showing him off/marking his territory. SOME SPOILERS ----------------, actually, Ilay considered Taeui to be cheating (and yea I could see why)
Js found out ilay kind of cheated on tae