you're so real for that.
A very realistic take
not to mention he obviously doesnt want to do it. i relate to that kind of emotion where u just want to shut people out no matter how irresponsible or irrational you look. plus, we have to remember both him and yoi are teenagers. its normal to not know how to process certain emotions, make mistakes, and hurt people altogether. heck- its normal as adults, but its just a tad bit more expected for minors especially when faced with a very life-altering experience
yeah sempai could acted better towards yoi chsn but some ppl forget that he is minor and has to do as his parents say + its normla behaviour feeling responsible for the family if the father is sick. of course he should said yoi about his situation first and then ask if she is willing to be in long distance relationship but he didnt have that courage to ask someone to wait for him when he doesnt even know when he will be back. not everything is black and white.