Ain't nobody gonna read allat.
Oh and a downvote for you cos you deserve it!
lol I hate when people hate on these yaois, like your damn well reading it. if you don’t like it. Don’t read it
Go to your room! You are grounded!
i think it’s a little delusional for you to say this- as if people can’t criticize a piece of media LOL
it’s not about “if you don’t like it, don’t read it” — every person has a right to start a conversation about something that’s going wrong.
what about you and the other person? if YOU don’t agree why does it matter to you? y’all are hella hypocrites for getting upset over an opinion that is hella justified AND does not mean anything to you.
I agree with u wholeheartedly
more like you and people who can’t and aren’t willing to read LOL- that’s fine btw ^^)/
no one’s asking you to read or agree— if you can’t accept that people have the right to get upset and point of things they disagree with, then why are you bothering scrolling through the comments in the first place? :3c
Bro I checked your profile and you are reading a straight pornhwa that contains rape " One day bdsm workshop" is in your reading list and you are giving advice here? Not saying what you said isn't right but you shouldn't act like a saint when you are not. Or are you a misogynist? That don't like when rape on men but like when it's woman??
Critique is fine. Acting like your opinion is the moral high ground while shaming people for enjoying fiction isn’t. Not every flawed story is a crisis and if you hate it that much, why are you still so deep in it? (︶︿︶)＝凸
They’re shaming people for a valid reason tho, sure it’s fiction but it’s something that happens irl and seeing people sit here & romanticize troupes like this is bad disrespectful & more harmful then you think..
I’m wondering if you lack comprehension or just don’t know how to put words together cause what in the hell does that have to do with anything…..how did you come to this conclusion , like I’m baffled on this critics behalf,
You do have a point, and I think it’s also sipped into the real worlds pov, if someone is attractive by world standard and a criminal there’s a certain bias, but another side to it is-it’s just fiction ya know, don’t get too worked up over it.
She literally told people to seek help if they like this type of trope but she herself reading something like this. This isn't a hypocrite behaviour? I just called it out? Which one of the sentence you don't understand? Or if you think she can criticize something where she is doing the exact same thing then you are a hypocrite too
In the pornwha the woman fully consents to every act inflicted upon her and even signs a contract. No coersion. No rape. Just safe consensual non consensual. Plus there is no psychological abuse, this lady WANTS THIS, and oh how badly she wants it. If you read it you’d understand.
I know its fiction. But the same people who romanticize this are basically the same who romanticize handsome serial killers. Have you watched You? The netflix show? At the end, although Joe is a misogynistic piece of murdering shit, he still manages to get letters of girls who want him and romanticise him. And the show finishes with “maybe I am not the problem, maybe the problem is you.”
Although Jaekyung inst a serial killer, he is a privileged korean man with means and resources to get away with everything bad he does. Although its fiction, its problematic that people still long for a happy ending for the abuser, when in real life there are rapists and abusers getting away with this type of crime left and right. How do you think the victims feel?
Thing is, its not an opinion. The rape in the manhwa and the psychological abuse is IN IT. Its how the story goes. ITS A FACT. Not an opinion. I am not shaming people for enjoying the art or the plot or whatever. I am shaming them for rooting for an abuser and their victim to be together. If these people had the most tiny sense of justice and rationality, they would hope for Dan to have a happy life away from Jaekyung. One where he turns his life around because he is actually a great professional! And not saved by “love” or whatever the fuck. Mind you, Jaekyung has spilled coffee on Kim Dan, thrown away his key chain, humilliated him in front of everyone, thought of him to betray him, coerced him into paying the hospital bills for sex, wasn’t not gentle at all in said sex knowing it was Kim’s first time, and when Dan repeatedly asked him to stop and tried to run away, he forced himself onto him.
We are not just talking about someone with a bad temper. We are talking about a BAD PERSON. He is not a babygirl with silly anger issues. He is a disgusting rapist and gets away with it because he is handsome and has a troubled past. Spare me.
You can enjoy fiction as much as you want. I love fiction and enjoy criticizing it and its fandom just as much, that’s why I am reading it.
And I am not just shaming these people, I am trying to call them to attention. What if one day something similar happens to them or someone close and they are so enamored with this twisted view of love since they romanticized it in Jinx that they ignore all the red flags, put them selves or their friends through an abusive relationship without even NOTICING its abuse.
We forget how easily swayed and manipulated humans are by their tastes and things that are normalized on the internet. People here have normalized rooting for a rapist and their victim to end up together. It wouldn’t surprise me if they ended up being raped and then their rapist saying “I did it because i love and couldn’t keep my hands off you” and them accepting them back just like that bc they romanticized Jaekyung’s behaviours.
I commented that to get people to reevaluate their standards. I didn’t think my opinion is the moral high ground. I thought it was the BARE MINIMUM to think that rape is wrong and wanting a rapist to end up with a victim IS wrong.
All of the people who disliked my comment should get treatment.
Thank you
I know i shouldn’t get so worked up. Its just that I love Kin Dan so much and he has gone through so much and probably will go through even more with his grandma’s death probably eventually happening. I hate that this story cannot solely be about how he pulls himself together and finds strength through himself or a healthier relationship than with the one he has with Jaekyung. I keep reading it because part of me hopes Jaekyung dies or something and Dan can free himself from the shackles.
Plus I really empathize with SA victims so that’s why I am so pressed.
I didn’t mean to offend anyone with my comment tbh. I had just been a long day and i was very annoyed at the thought of someone romanticizing them.
You truly lack any sense of comprehension and common sense to be able to read, digest and understand what this criticism is about.
Thank you. They stuck to that argument and are not understanding the point that I am making. Me having a pornwha on my reads does not take away from my criticism.
Why am I seeing people defending Jaekyung? Saying that he “is trying to change” and “his past blablabla” and romanticizing and ENJOYING the same fuckass trope that was used in Bj Alex? A rich abusive top that rapes and takes advantage of a bottom who loves them. And then they lose them and suddenly realize they’ve been in love this whole time and the bottom with no fucking sense of self respect goes back to them.
Lets remember the implications of rape: coercing someone in exchange for sex, is RAPE.
Having unconsented sex is RAPE
NOT STOPPING WHEN SOMEONE SAYS “stop” or “wait” is RAPE. And don’t even say that “sometimes they don’t mean it” because Kim Dan was miserable most of those times. Those scenes made me disgusted i almost barfed. He looked tired and he didn’t want to do it.
Not to talk about the verbal and psychological abuse. Ugh.
So why are we trying to redeem the perpetrator of the abuse? If this was a real life scenario of a man that abused a woman would you guys be trying to ship them and pair them together? Would you romanticize the story? Rapists are human at the end of the day, everyone has their baggage and trauma. But it doesn’t make it excusable. What the actual fuck.
Please reevaluate your standards and morals and what you consider a good romance. Or get some fucking therapy because I pretty sure you must be projecting some kind of real life trauma into the story to cope with your sexual trauma or something. Maybe trying to make your abuser more palatable towards yourself or gaslight yourself into not believing it was abuse whatever idk.
Im ranting about this because it is actually harmful for the victims. With bls like this and demented delusional bl lovers that ignore all the bad things, it is typical that abuse is overlooked. In media AND in real life. I am afraid that if you cannot spot that this is evidently a red flag and that you shouldn’t want them to end up together then please get help.
Sorry for the long yap.
Take care.
Stop fucking romanticizing handsome abusers.