ATP I dont even know why I am reading this anymore...

daedalus October 4, 2025 5:16 am

like, I keep on facing dissapointment in each chapter that I read bc how is it taking him so LONG to realize and recognize his issues and treat Dan better. Like how many chapters do we have to keep watching him be like "oh no" "hes stoll not okay" "woops he almost died again, i ghuess he actually isn't okay." WHILE STILL ACTING POSSESSIVE and mean towards him. ATP even just having a conversation will not work bc Dan has been so traumatized that hes living with ptsd fight or flight responses.Im truly just reading bc the art is so pretty, but everytime HE shows up on the screen i get soooo bored. GROW UP MAN

Responses
    Heya October 4, 2025 6:18 am

    They need therapyy,both. Since clearly only talking with each other isnt helping

    kuili October 4, 2025 6:51 am

    Yea we can tell you only look at the art instead of actually reading if youre missing the very obvious points ....

    imperitus October 4, 2025 7:41 am

    but what you‘re explaining is literally what everyone hated in bj alex. alex suddenly making a 180 acting all lovely and whatever. I actually prefer this pacing because I want to see jaekyung putting some effort into his redemption. him having to learn how to care for another human being is way more realistic and makes his character development so much more meaningful. plus I kinda enjoy his suffering and the mental gymnastics he does to redeem himself

    daedalus October 4, 2025 9:32 pm

    So i never read bj alex, for some reason i couldn't get into it. and yeah obviously i would want some redemption for jaekyung but like... atp dan needs help, and no matter how much jaekyung changes, or how he gets rid of his anger management, and undersands dan as a person. Dan still needs help, and the only way for him to get help is to stay away from jaekyung and focus on himself. ,maybe years later they could get back together after they've both fixed their issues, but i dont see that happening. (and even if it did happen, a time skip is hard to execute well, especially for the manhwa medium.) but i digress.

    imperitus October 4, 2025 10:48 pm
    So i never read bj alex, for some reason i couldn't get into it. and yeah obviously i would want some redemption for jaekyung but like... atp dan needs help, and no matter how much jaekyung changes, or how he g... daedalus

    hmm. I kinda disagree simply because when dan was by himself, his mental health detoriated to begin with. plus, dan has a tendency to almost kill himself while sleep walking. I personally wish it would be potato who helps him out of his mental prison, but it seems like he‘s busy with other things (?). and dan seemingly doesn‘t have any other person giving him the support he needs. do I think jaekyung should be the one? no. but it makes sense since dan still feels indebted to him and without jaekyung forcing him to get help, I doubt he would continue his therapy sessions. but it’s not the best way to handle the situation given how jakeyung’s mood swings trigger dan’s ptsd so I understand your frustration. :/