Fr! It’s insane how common it is
I agree. What's more, they would be saying, "she's different now, she suddenly stop fixing herself/putting makeups and being fashionable".... like dude, you gotta understand, she changed because she's a MOTHER now. She has responsibility to the children, and of course, as father and a parent you ought to change because you choose to take responsibility. She won't be the same girly free that always plays around, because she took on the role or choose to be a mother, and wife to them (husbands).... I really hate it. Especially when if whenever I remember a celebrity/singer here in the Philippines, (his name is Skastaclee or something) he literally cheated on his partner who was at that time pregnant with their second child. And he was out there, pimping some girls, and then he said those things, that it's because she (Zeinab) changed and doesn't do any makeups or even fix herself to look good. Like, dude, she changed cause she chose to be a fucking mom. He has no idea the impact of what he did to her that caused her to lose the baby.
The scariest thing is that there are a frightening number of men who are infuriated that their wives' attention has shifted to the children. Childish bastards.