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No literally there’s never been any romance between them, it was all just a trauma bond where TJ dumps his load in Ian. It might’ve been obsession and hyper dependence, but never love. They definitely care for one another but it wasn’t a good relationship. My faith has always been in Jo and Ian. The author introduced Jo for a reason, to display the stark contrast between his feelings for Ian and TJs need for Ian. It displayed two types of attachments, one that’s romantic and one that’s psychological.
I'm crying someone on twitter called tj, tjoilet then it reminded me how ppl call tjian reunion the toilet arc there really is nothing romantic between them.