For any parent out there we cannot teach our kid to just have good result but also persona...

Imma be honest with ya- this is super made up. If you finish good college- good grades ARE your achievement.
This guy is socially retarded, it has nothing to do with his studies.
Your brother should get rewarded, because good results aren't easy. Try it yourself if you want something.

But dont you still find people who have college degrees without jobs? Though I think this person has a point. Building a good personality is also part of life, And I feel like parents shouldnt single out a child because of achievement. That just doesn't feel right.

I know from experience - no you cannot only have good grades. You need people skills in order to do well too. Just like if you did well in a class but never went in to see the professor, you won't get a recommendation. Everything you do need references from legit sources now. People do disqualify you when you're overqualified for a job as well because they think you will leave soon and don't try as hard. Anyways, you cannot do anything well without experience or reference. It takes time to study hence he neglected other stuffs thus never got any social skills. This is why both are important. One can do well without having super good grades. Balance is the key. I saw so many people who are average at studies but eventually do better than people who are supposedly good at studies

I think it about bias on my parent part because my brother is first born, anyway do you have a job because everywhere I interview they always ask your skill and experience they only just glance my qualification...it is hard to find job nowadays ┑(￣Д ￣)┍

I think it about bias on my parent part because my brother is first born, anyway do you have a job because everywhere I interview they always ask your skill and experience they only just glance my qualification...it is hard to find job nowadays ┑(￣Д ￣)┍

I definitely agree with all of these points. Colleges like UC Berkeley accept students with a good balance between club activities and good grades. There are cases when even straight-A students do not even get to attend, whereas students who averages C's but with a good history of activities outside of school do. In college applications for top schools , a large portion asks for such things. They want to see if you have the capability of handling multiple activities at once or if you have a life outside of work.

MC was able to get into a good college, but when asked about what he does outside of work, he doesn't have anything. "Oh, yeah. All I do is work, go home to sleep, and repeat."