What?? Now a man can't be pretty nowadays?Haven't you met any real life twinks or what. There are plenty of them irl
God when will fujoshis realized that men can also be pretty, so narrow minded. bro have you been outside?
please, you KNOW im talking about how it's ALWAYS like this. and it's ALWAYS the bottom. please, they want it to be straight so bad.
BRO THERE'S PLENTY OF BLS WITH BUFF BOTTOMS??? AND LIKING ONE SPECIFIC SIZE OF A BOTTOM IS ALSO FETISHIZING???? THIS IS SO FREAKING WEIRD?? JUST READ BLS WITH BUFF BOTTOMS OH MY GOD..JUST BC A MAN IS FEMININE DOES NOT MEAN IT'S STRAIGHT?!? JUST GO OUTSIDE FOR ONCE DAWG
whatever. talking to you yaoi fangirls is the same qs nothing because you won't ever realize the point. you have this heteronormalized shit rooted into your brain already.
hating on a man just because hes more feminine IS homophobic and misogynistic a man cant be pretty now?
" Heteronormalized" and one of my favourite bottom is Luke..just say you are a homophobic jealous b*tch who cannot stand men prettier than you..no need to beat around the bush blame others who literally is comfortable with any type of body trope..heck I even read twink tops and you are calling me a "heteronormalized" yaoi fan...if anyone is being weird fetishizer here then it's you gurl
Not only you are homophobic..you are misogynistic too. Just know that my no. 1 bottoms are seo-an from pizza delivery man and gold palace and Jae-oh from pawn's revenge. So you telling me "heteronormalized shit rooted to your brain" is just your coping. Probably check on yourself on how you are a fetishizer and misogynist ar the same time
Frrrr i mean quick glance at top korean bl list and you'll see buff guys being bottom ALOT, or at least they used to top. If you see a pretty man and you consider him "isnt like a real man" then thats your fckn problem bc you has a fckn stereotypes and just fail to realize ur being hypocrite af. Like, why is a man can't be pretty, moreover when hes the bottom in this case. Everyone has a taste so just go and eat at your own place, no need to disturb others.
Btw in Asia (yes korean included), if you see a pretty boy and hes gay then theres abt 70% hes the bottom (dont ask why i know).
Aaaaaand in the past, we had males having long hair (mostly royalties) throughout the world and male dressed up all fancy and glorious and may I remind yall high heels and dresses were meant to be worn by men. In the wildlife, we have male animals being prettier than female ones so yeah, criticize a men for being pretty is not very "feminine".
Frrridk why tf homophobic and misogynistic people read BL..like they are just disgrace at this point
Y'know there's a saying that "some people just dont want a man to fall in love with a woman so they'd rather that man chose abother man" so yeah it pretty fits the misogyny check
completely agree! and fetishize it more with rape then call it “Love@
Babe in ancient japan r4pe equals love. Not surprised if some people in today times still think that. And tbh some women now still unconsciously make women the villain (the isekai thing, break off the engagement thing, etc.)
let’s normalize rape then
Who in their right mind would?
Girl im so confused right now
Girlie I just stated the fact that r4pe being called a form of love wasn't something fetishized but that crazy bat shit really happened so yeah, don't be surprised if some dheads still think of it that way. I don't support it btw.
All of those you all say above like men having long hair, men having feminine faces and r4ping and all, they are a thing in asian countries, it does exist in real life, so some authors just use real materials (of course they also alter it somehow to fit their taste or to fit the story's theme idk sth like that).
However, everyone has personal favourite genres and I respect that of each person and as long as you don't get reality and fictional taste mixed, everything's fine. The story isnt my work, I read it for free (on pirate places even) so what can I do but waltz away when I don't like one, bc yeah I don't have a say in anything. I mean I give the author no money what rights do I have? Fictional characters can do whatever they want in their world for all I care, just don't think you yourselves can do immoral things in real life.
Though I do agree some authors have some problems themselves.
Lmaaaaaooo I like you. Yoi know what, im going to follow you. Twinks are a thing, i know that but like… Are you not tired of the same Manhwa niche? Twinkie boys with no strength whatsoever.. it gets so tiring like where is the originality.
It all started with hetero standards and people's view from all the way back. People preferred men to be strong and take the first step (thats why it led to the r4pe thing) while women must be soft and conservative yada yada, so basicaly men to be the "protect one", and women are the "protected one" (although guess what-or-who they protect women from lol and funny thing many incels still have this kind of mindset). Later on, that model image also applied to homo couples with the bottom being "the women". Many people, lgbtq+ people even, also have a thing for the strong-and-weak kinda contrast and so now you see that in many mangas, manhwas, manhuas where whatever the "uke" does there will always be a "seme" who is more powerful or stronger than the "uke", and the "uke" is usually femininely beautiful.
Here's the thing that is different between westerners and easterners: for most westerns, top/bot is just a position in bed and it doesn't affect or has little affection to each character's personality/appearance. But most easterners consider the traditional "top", including the appearance and personality, and d!ck size of course, to be the alpha male or almost the same as that image of "traditional male in hetero relationship", and the same goes to the "bottom", which means they are twinks and kinda weak as you might have seen everywhere, aka "traditional female in hetero relationship".
There are always exceptions and there are more and more people who don't go along with those traditional types anymore so just read whatever fit your check and ignore those which don't.
god, when will korean stop drawing straight couples, put a dick in the girl and then call it a bl? how is that a man?