I agree with you!! 100 and 1 % you are correct! I like your analysis
he has all the business to be in yw’s life cause he already is! the problem here is that yw is not being completely honest with him yet seoin wants to help, can you see how that would be frustrating? to try to help someone you love but that person is keeping things from you without knowing it is also to protect you? ofc seoin would crash out, does he even really know the extent of the loanshark’s relationship w yw? No! he thinks he’s still the asshole from back then. Who is Seoin you ask? Well, he’s someone who loves yeongwon and is also loved by yeongwon. Are you reading with your other eye closed?
This is a weird thing to say.
Maybe I suggest rereading and thinking more…he didn't ask him to get out to see his father but asking Yeongwoon to get out because he didn't want him to in the same space with Taegu. Seoin doesn't even like Yeongwoon’s dad so there is no way he would tell Yeongwoon to get out of the car to meet his father. He’s jealous that Yeongwoon doesn't rely on him and only runs to Taegu for help when Seoin is waiting for him to tell him and he’ll help him. He should understand how it feels when he wants someone to rely on you but they keep saying they’re ok when they actually rely on someone else.
Really? Then I’d like to know why it’s so “weird” that it made you comment. Or is leaving a sentence all you could do?
Maybe I suggest rereading and thinking more…he didn't ask him to get out to see his father but asking Yeongwoon to get out because he didn't want him to in the same space with Taegu. Seoin doesn't even like Yeongwoon’s dad so there is no way he would tell Yeongwoon to get out of the car to meet his father. He’s jealous that Yeongwoon doesn't rely on him and only runs to Taegu for help when Seoin is waiting for him to tell him and he’ll help him. You should understand how it feels when he wants someone to rely on you but they keep saying they’re ok when they actually rely on someone else.
looks like you missed my point, so I suggest YOU reread it. Seoin doesn't get to be mad about who Yeongwoon chooses to rely on. Sure, let's say his feelings got hurt. thats valid. however, regulating those emotions and dealing with whatever "anger" or "jealousy" he feels is entirely his responsibility. It's not Yeongwoon's responsibility to soothe his feelings or do anything to appease him. Yeongwoon has a right to choose whatever he's most comfortable with, and Seoin doesn't get to question that. If you care about someone, you can offer them your support, but it's ultimately their decision whether or not they want that from you. All that should matter here is that Yeongwoon is getting the support he needs, and he's getting it from hyung. Seoin getting mad in this situation just makes him selfish and immature! if it's Yeongwoon he cares about, and not his own feelings and ego, he should be happy that Yeongwoon has someone he can rely on.
I sincerely hope you don't carry this mentality in real life... just because you "love" someone it doesn't give you a pass to do whatever and act however you want. sure they may have had history and a very close relationship when they were teenagers, but as of right now they're nothing more than an employer and employee.. ex-friends at most. Yeongwoon has no obligation to seek him out for help. In contrast to how Seoin is behaving, the hyung seem to have been more of a "silent helper" type. always been there without being overbearing or making him feel like he HAS to accept his help. Anyone would find it comforting to know they have someone they can rely on who isn't expecting or demanding anything in return. Even in this instance, he just showed up, let Yeongwoon know he was there, and told him to do whatever he was most comfortable with. nothing more nothing less. Meanwhile Seoin makes everything about himself, what he feels, and what he wants.
Don’t worry yourself over that because I can assure you that I have a great mental and emotional bandwidth in both real life and in understanding this fictional story.
I don’t think you even tried to understand where seoin is coming from despite his backstory. He was so in love and was left with no clue as to why, when they saw each other again there was still no explanation. He has abandonment issues. Your statement about loving someone doesn’t give you a pass to do/act however you want also applies to yeongwon in this context. They were both traumatized kids with family issues. You saying they had “history” and “close relationship” is downplaying their relationship. It was more than that?!
Nothing more than an employer and employee? Is that normal for an employee to go above and beyond the scope of their job like how yw took up the task of getting fucked by seoin instead of his other hook-ups, in the guise of protecting seoin’s image but also serving his own feelings in the process?
You fail to consider the power dynamic in yw’s relationship with the hyung here. The hyung has KNOWLEDGE of what yw is going thru, that is something Seoin doesn’t have. YW doesn’t just accept his help, he asked for help from that hyung. Everything he kept from Seoin, that hyung knows so ofcourse he’s only got him to rely on because he won’t frigging tell Seoin. That hyung isn’t expecting anything in return, are you sure about that? He said he was doing it out of his own guilt and now there is even a possibility that he has feelings for yw
You’re trying to paint seoin as this spoiled brat but you don’t even understand him. Seoin tries to make it about himself blah blah blah BUT HOW COULD HE MAKE IT ABOUT YEONGWON when yw does not OPEN UP? He may not always have the best reactions but he is trying. But could he even try when the one he loves doesn’t let him? Cut the they are just ex-friends bullshit because after everything seoin did, yeongwon didn’t push him away. Stop downplaying their relationship just because you are rooting for the loan shark. They clearly have an understanding because of their feelings. A relationship goes both ways and if you keep suppressing shit, what is your partner supposed to do when they can clearly see you have issues ur dealing with but can’t do anything about it.
he has no business or right to be forcing himself into MC's life like this imo. MC is still trying to sort out his own life and feelings, and having to consider this man-child's mood swings and behavior all the time must be suffocating! the hyung has been there for him to rely on for many years so its natural that he feels more comfortable around him. He's seen him at his worse and personally knows his father, they have a different kinf of history. Who are you to bang on their car and demand that he gets out? give him some space bro. wtf!