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ameri "knows" based on the idea that iruma can read the 'prohibited texts' = first love memories manga and how the sakura tree showed up in diabotany before they started doing their daily readings.
she even deduced that iruma couldn't possibly have relatives since he's a human to end up as "irumi" the akudol version of him thus why she definitely knows iruma is irumi as well.
it isn't explicitly revealed to her but again, she "knows".
she only tries to gaslight her father to keep iruma safe for the most part.

I haven't read this yet, and I just started the anime. Can I ask who knows he's human?