I love the healing

Nikki October 18, 2025 11:08 pm

The healing arc really isn’t rushed and as eager as I am for reconciliation I need this! I love that now that he has gotten used to freedom he is learning about making choices and owning them too. But without it being extreme, just normal everyday choices.
Should I have broken up with him? Why did he treat me that way? How do I feel about that? Will I regret it? Did I do the best thing for me at that time? I love that he is actually talking through stuff, dealing with his meds and not getting pushed around.

It’s okay to still have feelings and yet be unsure if you want anything to do with someone who hurt you even if they have changed and ARE sorry. It’s okay to want space. You can be in love with someone and not want to be with them. Life is full of roller coasters and things change. Make the choice that you think you won’t regret! It’s the best anyone can do at anytime.
You only get one life folks! Make sure you treat yourself well!!

Responses
    dxntfind_me! October 19, 2025 12:29 am

    YESS LITERALLY i was getting a bit worried there at the start ish, but then the feedback the therapist/psychiatrist (???) gave him was so good... like there really is no 'wrong' or 'right' decision; the focus is just making a decision PERIOD. and that choice yk reflected his mental state at that moment in time... like u said, things change and feelings change and decisions change

    Nikki October 19, 2025 4:18 am
    YESS LITERALLY i was getting a bit worried there at the start ish, but then the feedback the therapist/psychiatrist (???) gave him was so good... like there really is no 'wrong' or 'right' decision; the focus i... dxntfind_me!

    It’s so reasonable and mature. Love me a therapy arc.
    One of my favorite lines is “ Do you think you made the best decision you could at the time?”

    Like people can be so hard on themselves and I feel like this questions is so important for everyone. I’m loving this arc!!!

    dxntfind_me! October 19, 2025 7:28 am
    It’s so reasonable and mature. Love me a therapy arc.One of my favorite lines is “ Do you think you made the best decision you could at the time?”Like people can be so hard on themselves and I feel like t... Nikki

    WAHHH YESS THAT WAS THE EXACT LINE I WAS THINKING ABOUT!!!! like its so rare to see in manhwas (at least in my experience) this level os seriousness when it comes to making these sorts of choices

    Nikki October 19, 2025 7:57 am
    WAHHH YESS THAT WAS THE EXACT LINE I WAS THINKING ABOUT!!!! like its so rare to see in manhwas (at least in my experience) this level os seriousness when it comes to making these sorts of choices dxntfind_me!

    I’m so glad to find someone who agrees!!!
    A lot of people seem to hate the wait before they get back together ( I’m assuming they absolutely will ) but this has been my favorite part of the story so far!!
    I agree! They are keeping it serious and mature