ok but i swear to GOD. if its the stereotypical “top whose had a long term crush yet sti...

crying October 19, 2025 1:08 pm

ok but i swear to GOD. if its the stereotypical “top whose had a long term crush yet still has loads of dating experience” and the “bottom who hasnt even had their first kiss even though they are PUSHING 30” TROPE. i will be LIVID. I’ll NEVER understand the obsession with bottoms being pure with no proper explanation as to why and tops having a plethora of experience even though theyve been pining for years.

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    zabong November 1, 2025 11:23 pm

    well i doubt since we know he moved away because of an 'incident' probably means somethinf happened between him and another guy in the school before

    Glitch November 2, 2025 1:42 am

    The only explanation being, hot top and plain nerd bottom

    nmixx November 2, 2025 5:20 am

    You made me realize i should just drop this if you're correct

    Nana November 3, 2025 12:02 am

    This is top 1 reasons to drop for me bc i after years reading bl i'm sick and tired of this bullshit,that was the biggest reason why i stopped reading shoujo when i was a teenager and going to yaoi but yaoi still w shit like this too ugh

    Glitch November 3, 2025 12:15 am

    There are also tropes where both of them have been single since birth and the bottom is an innocent virgin baby but the top is also a virgin but somehow a sex god

    Nana November 3, 2025 12:21 am
    There are also tropes where both of them have been single since birth and the bottom is an innocent virgin baby but the top is also a virgin but somehow a sex god Glitch

    Omg lmao i just read a manga last week w this dynamicbut that doesn't bother as much,for me it's either both have experience(idc if one had more partners than the other)or both are virgins!equality!

    Nana November 3, 2025 12:22 am
    There are also tropes where both of them have been single since birth and the bottom is an innocent virgin baby but the top is also a virgin but somehow a sex god Glitch

    This one here the mc doesn't know about fellatio so i'm just hoping the ml is a virgin too,evne if he dis had a gf i hope he stayed a virgin...

    Glitch November 3, 2025 12:47 am
    This one here the mc doesn't know about fellatio so i'm just hoping the ml is a virgin too,evne if he dis had a gf i hope he stayed a virgin... Nana

    I love tropes where one of them has been pining but has ex-gfs but thats only bc they accepted anyone who confesses bc they know they don’t have a chance with their crush but never do anything romantic or sexual with the gf (which is morally bad, like reject them don’t accept ) so they get dumped immediately. Or that one of them wants to date so bad but the girls get seduced by the other in a “if I can’t have him, then no one can” kinda trope

    Nana November 3, 2025 12:59 am
    I love tropes where one of them has been pining but has ex-gfs but thats only bc they accepted anyone who confesses bc they know they don’t have a chance with their crush but never do anything romantic or sex... Glitch

    Lol i love those two tropes too specially the second one when the bottom is the one who is popular and seduce the girls bc it's always the semes who are the good looking popular ones is rare to get a popular bott

    Glitch November 3, 2025 1:04 am
    Lol i love those two tropes too specially the second one when the bottom is the one who is popular and seduce the girls bc it's always the semes who are the good looking popular ones is rare to get a popular bo... Nana

    YEEESSS!!! Also hopelessly in love bottoms that is outwardly fruity/seductive and hangs out with the girls so he can gatekeep his crush from them and get their support + intel about anyone else who has a crush on the top

    Nana November 3, 2025 1:37 am
    YEEESSS!!! Also hopelessly in love bottoms that is outwardly fruity/seductive and hangs out with the girls so he can gatekeep his crush from them and get their support + intel about anyone else who has a crush ... Glitch

    That just made me remember mangas i read before w this same type of character but it's been years and i don't remember japanese names of mangas i read so i can't go reread againit's easier to find mangas w bott like this than manhwas