I'm not trying to be glib here, but you can't rape the willing... she's willingly participating in this. It is not gangrape, as you claim. Maybe that's still fucked up to you, and that's ok, but let's not call it rape just because you find it offensive. She's a grown woman who willingly chose this. Don't take away her agency.
That being said, this story IS absolutely fucked up. LOL. I would NOT call it rape, but it is way out there in the realm of 50 Shades of Stupid kind of fantasy land BDSM. Mostly because it does NOT promote good BDSM practices -- like aftercare! Aftercare is so important in most BDSM practices! There's no talk about her limits (at least that we've seen.) Etc., etc..
Sure, its consented non-con, but thats all there is. Like bdsm is so much more as you said. And it feels like the author is just using bdsm as a valid excuse to illustrate scenes like these. To each their own in the fictional world, but i wish they would be upfront and stop calling this bdsm
Oh, I agree with you there. It is just surface level understanding of the BDSM scene. And not even a good surface level understanding. I think they just used the BDSM so they could have the plot device of the contract, but I'm not sure why it is so important just yet.
Majority of women have a rape fantasy actually (ofc talking about smth consensual)
Did you just "well akschually" us on BDSM and kinks? Lol. Don't know about Pia Colada, but I am well aware that some (I wouldn't say majority) women have rape fantasies. Not sure why you randomly said that, though. Care to explicate how that statement was relevant to our conversation? Since you said "actually," it indicates that you are offering a contrary argument, but how that is contrary to what either of us said, I don't know.
Lmao i do know,thanks. Let me clarify again, my comment is not about people having rape kinks, its about the author using bdsm in the title to just make a story where rape happens. Its not even a well discussed kink, like the focus is not on the bdsm parts but on the rape. Its so clear, but whatever helps yall get off. This shoudlve been call gang bang workshop or smth
Bdsm workshop and its just an excuse for gang rape....i always hope to see some different bdsm dynamics but the straight minds comprehension equates that to rape everytime