sigh

I think the part where he likes choking is real, its just the other bdsm type play he doesn’t care for too much.

you're right, but it still feels so gimmicky that this author built up them having an actual bdsm relationship, with all the aspects of it like aftercare and contracts and such, and then it turns out the "submissive" actually isn't into bdsm at all (and even is lowkey disrespectful about it) except for choking. like. why couldn't we have stuck with that from the beginning rather than building up all this bullshit. i just feel kinda disappointed and led on lmao

True but maybe he’s just rationalizing? Cause he also came right away when our mc said he was bad at sex when they first did it. He was turned on from being belittled so I’d say he might be into play (at least a bit) since not everyone can cum from humiliation just because you like someone.

I wanna hope that they still end up being into bdsm after they confirm their relationship. We lack so much good bdsm stuff, most of it just rape with a bdsm aesthetic. I just wanna see a freaked out bottom who wants his dom to choke the shit out of him.

yeye i agree! im just saying, its still so bullshit to build up all this bdsm contract and aftercare shit just to say errr actually he doesn't like the pain, he just likes this guy. sure he can still like getting choked and being humiliated---god forbid we actually see that more than like once or twice, though---but then WHAT was the point of building up the bdsm shit if he doesn't give a shit about anything except that, and even seems to look down upon bdsm??

again i agree with you, but i still think the rhetoric here is so bs lol

No you’re totally right! Cause come on now he can’t react like that and it just be for the “I love him and that’s how I know” plot. I hope the bdsm continues cause I think that we were both right in that he can’t react like that and that him loving him is all there is too it.

same!!