I don't follow this anymore but I saw your comment on feeds and you worded yourself extremely well. And you're exactly right. If Seo-an hadn't overstepped his lover's boundaries, disregarded his agency, made decisions for him, tried to change him, Woowon's mental health definitely wouldn't have spiraled this much. You're the first person I see point this out (something I've been thinking since I was actively reading this) and to me it just shows that you followed the thread of cause and effect running throughout this story. I don't see why anyone would think you're ragebaiting for criticising a character. Seo-an is a very attractive, charming, and sometimes vulnerable character, which is why I think many people have a hard time seeing beyond his charm and admitting he could've harmed his lover to that extent.
Omggg I love your wording. I wish I could write like you and express my thoughts really well but my English limits it. Your ment really means a lot me
I appreciate it I think you're being a bit hard on yourself. You express your ideas very clearly and effectively. I read your comment and wanted to back you up since I know many people on here don't take kindly to their favourite character being criticised even if it's valid criticism.
Pardon my bad english'))
As I remember,
First, Seo an tried so hard to win Woo won, who is just a delivery man (obviously a poor guy)
-Woo won got his pride back then, he didn't want Seo an to see his vulnerabilities.
- He didn't want to take advantage of his rich bf and be called a man whore by Seo an's friends.
Second, Woo Won went there for his job but that bitch kissed him. Seo An got angry and forced himself on Woo Won.
Third, he sneaked up Won's phone and gave money to Won's dad without Won's consent. Bro doesn't know what boundaries are.
If only he didn't get involved between Won's own family problems, Won's mental health wouldn't be this bad. I mean he could discuss about that with Woo won before giving money.
When Won confronted it, he acted like he did the right thing? And I think Seo An misspoke back then too, and hurted Won's pride.
Anddd, without telling Woo Won about his abroad plan, he just assumed and decided for Won's future. (Back then) He didn't ask about Won's opinion. He wants to control Won's life, like a puppet who has to do what he says. He seems to forget Woo won's Background.
And then Won's father died and Won's mental health fucked up.
He said if Woo Won wants to stay with him, he's gonna try for it. But man, YOU"RE DATING AN UNGRADUATED POOR DELIVERY MAN. ToT
I got that Seo an got frustrated.
I also blame Won for trying to solve everything himself. BUT it's bc that's what he's always been doing his whole life. He had got no one. He doesn't want to ask for help either. Bro is the type to get slapped instead if that will make peace. Didn't Seo An fall for his kindness in Season 1? Didn't won fix his social anxiety or whatever? Won's presence helped Seo An but not the other way around.
I think Seo An just came off as being too controlling after their rs. In latestest chapter, Woo won took a break and left Seo An for a while but He promised to definately come back to Seo An.
Tbh, I'd be suffocated in such rs where your boyfriend does whatever he wants and then blames you for being exactly the person he fell for when he was helpless and needed you the most.
Guyss, I'm not ragebaiting '))
I'm just trying to understand both of them here. I love them so much. And I believe upi-nim will give them the happy ending they deserve.