No wait I have almost the same problem! When I like them I hope that they like me and as soon as they do I just start wanting to pull away. Like I’m freaked out? But I can hold out and hold myself back and be kinda into it UNTIL they want to be in a relationship. Like I’m literally in my twenties and never had a boyfriend even though I’ve wanted to be in a relationship since forever ago. I really want to know why too. I’m suspected that it might have to do with that I’m a hopeless romantic at heart but subconsciously I’m scared cause most family I’ve known have gotten divorced. Maybe that’s why? No idea.
lowkey you might be on the aroace spectrum my friend. i am similar to you
Twin you might be on our side the asexual one
Could may be a strong sense of avoidant attachment style or your lithromantic?
this is taking me tf out HELPPPP but i agree
If anyone knows about this stuff or has an opinion pls help me.
I don’t understand why but I genuinely haven’t been able to correspond anyone’s love since like elementary/middle school. Now I’m just starting college and anytime someone likes me I just have this weird pitch feeling and I feel highkey uncomfortable around them. Even if IIII was the one to like them first. Another important thing is that I also genuinely have been feeling desperate to be in a relationship since I’m grown, I feel like I’m missing out on something beautiful that I see a lot of people have and wish to experience. My point is, even when I’m the one that liked the other person first, and fantasize about being in a cute relationship, whenever I’m facing a real opportunity I just can’t, for the life of me, take it. And like it’s not subconscious (I think) that I’m just afraid and I hide it by saying no or smth like that, whenever I feel any reciprocation I physically and emotionally stop feeling attracted, I just start feeling extremely awkward…
Sorry if that’s too extensive but the reason I’m asking 4 help is cause I’m starting to like someone and I truthfully have my hopes high this time so I’d like to work in myself and improve to be able to be in a relationship w someone and be a good partner
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