I'm sorry but you ARE an asshole because a person's physical attributes is no concern of yours and shouldn't affect how you perceive people.
Also it's 2017 and science says gender/sex is not binary or determined by just genitals or chromosomes. Science was built around the assumption that it is but it's a social construct, not a fact.
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I believe i've already stated that a person's physical attributes are of no concern to me until they get in my bubble and try to alter my perception of them? You're the exact kind of rude person i was talking about that gets overly emotional and tries to shove their ideology down my throat... I already said that if a person will come forward and just talk with me to explain their situation rather than just expecting me to cater to them and getting offended when i don't despite not knowing them that i'd be willing to alter my perception of individuals. Also, what science? I can tell you dont know what you're talking about from the way you said "gender/sex", the two aren't the same and sex is 100% assigned by genitals and chromosomes. The idea that gender is non-binary is debatable. I guess i'll humor you, give me a link to this "science" you read.
In my experiences, precuming like that when very aroused is very common for young men. I don't remember a single guy that didn't do that from just a heavy make-out session and some exploratory searches when I was a teenager.

Ever noticed how there're SO many men who just can't help but precum all over the place while thinking about their love interest? He just precame enough to leave a wet spot not just on his underwear, but on his pants too. Without touching his dick. The sensitivity must be nice, though borderline debilitating. ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭