Sorry for asking if you don't wanna answer but why would your mum ask you as a child to not get married? Every good parent wants their kids to grow up, marry and have a family of their own
Heck, even most bad parents would shame you for not getting married. At most they'd ask you both to move in with them. (I'm curious too if you're comfortable to share).
She had a bad argument with my dad and kept saying none of us loved her so I tried to comfort her and reassure her I did and would be here. Mind you, there's a decent age gap between my siblings and I, so they were all teens at the time and had their own concerns.
She was always really close to her mom, but she has a very different personality from my sweet grandma, and would clash with a lot of us often. I think not having that closeness with any of her kids made it difficult for her too. (￣∇￣")
Being the baby of the family put me in a sticky situation because I was the last of 6 kids, am only the 2nd girl, there was an age gap, etc etc. Even to this day (bruh I'm 27) I struggle pulling away from that perception when it comes to the respect and trust of my family as an adult. I have a job and a fiance lol
I'm glad you're doing well then <3
Every well meaning person deserves love and a family. That's why we are here after all.
Thanks <3 I love being in this s
Site. The community overall has been so fun to be around and read with
Yeah, there are some oddballs as well but it's always fun to talk about cool manwhas
When I was about 7 or 8, I remember promising my mother I wouldn't ever get married and live with them forever. As I got older, I went through a lot and while loving my family, I can't imagine living with them the way she wants me to. I ended up being the only one of 6 kids to move away- without a word to anyone either. I understand how and why they hurt me and I've decided to not get swept up in that. She still brings it up to this day that I promised her and holds that against me.
I guess what I'm saying is, Fuck Ceasar. There was no "leading on," it was his interpretation in his own damn head. I don't care if he felt wronged too, he's a toxic shit-head and the story has not sugar coated that even from the beginning of his backstory- even if his surroundings shaped his actions, he was already a selfish, lying, jerk. Our girl is not stupid, and understands her family is toxic and that they're using her. Even the bit of happiness is not going to overshadow the pain they're causing her. (︶︿︶)＝凸