I'm so sorry you were treated that way. That's so selfish and insensitive for anyone to do that. I wish coming out wasn't a big deal, but wishing doesn't make it so. No one should share private information about someone without their consent...especially information that could have drastic impact. I hope your journey is a good one despite that unfortunate hiccup.
oooohhh i'am so sorry to read this but i can really understand you i have also friends who are like you and i love them fore who they are it's like you said it's personal nobody has the right to but in in you're personal life! so it's sad to read what youre friend did she had to keep it to her self :'( i dislike people who treat's and laugh whit the for nothing :'( i hope you have now a better friend who is there fore you and doens't offend you or hurt you in that way :'( :) x
Thank you, i wish the same for you too ^^
Aww no i'm not hurt, I will break all ties w her if she told my friends. But thank you for your support!!
ooh than i'am relieved that youre not hurt :) yes that's normal if she is a true friend she will keep it to her self but if she doesn't than indeed she isn't a real true friend at all ;) no problem glad you like my support i guess ;) :P
I am deeply.sorry to hears this. I wish I could whoop your friends ass and set her straight that it's non of her goddamn business. When you are ready, you are ready and if you never are it's okay too. No one should force you! I still remember how my sister came out to my bro and me and how she started crying saying 'smth is wrong with her and how disgusting she is for liking girls', (it was around the early 20's where homosexuality was still considered a taboo and looked down on) and I swear nothing ever hurt as much as hearing her saying it's wrong, when it's not and seeing and seeing her cry and break down like that. Back then I was too little to understand everything (later I did), but I still accepted her wholeheartedly, gave her my beloved ice-cream and told her 'if big sis likes girls than it must be right??? so don't cry u have me' and she started laughing, saying this is just like me while taking my hand. To this day we are really close like bfs, she loves to lie on my boobs haha and I respect her decision of never coming out to our parents even tho they are supportive of the LGBT+ community and their rights. It's not my business and the picture of her crying like that never left my memories.
Thank you, your sister and I will find our rights in society someday. People like you are our hope on doing that so please keep supporting us <3
you had a hard things this things you have to tell someone you trust and who is a real friend and it is not good if you tell someone and that someone maybe ruin your life when you in peace I think eveyrone has a freedom to decide their life
Like there's a reason why they arent out yet. People should mind their own goddamn buisnesses. Like you don't even know him why would you tell the world he's gay, why does it concern you.
I accidentally came out to my friend cuz she kept on pushing the topic. She kept forcing me to come out to my other friends even though i'm not ready. She just wants to make sensation and talk about it behind my back, it wouldnt change anything to her daily life but it would change everything in mine.
So advice for everyone who knows someone gay: don't out them, they know when they're ready.