I get that Dojin is a loving husband and a kind person, but he’s directing his empathy and care toward the wrong person, the one who caused the deepest pain to the person he loves most.
Hyesung was also in a horrible situation when his mom abandoned him. He had to run away from an abusive father and fend for himself completely alone with no support. It’s frustrating to see that his mom doesn’t have to face any of that. She gets help, compassion, and comfort she never earned, especially not from Hyesung or his family.
It’s unfair that she did such horrible things, yet in the end she gets to live peacefully in a nice house, financially supported by the rich husband of the son she didn’t even care about. And honestly, Dojin did maintain family ties. He stays in regular contact with her, so he kept the door open for a possible reconciliation that Hyesung had already decided he didn’t want.
Why is Dojin deciding for Hyesung what’s best for him? If there was truly a chance of Hyesung wanting to reconnect, Dojin wouldn’t have had to hide all of this behind his back for 17 years. Let’s be real
if Hyesung wanted to see her again, he would’ve done it already. She abandoned him 30 years ago, and Dojin’s been secretly in touch with her for 17 years. If Hyesung hadn’t reached out by now, it’s because he doesn’t want to.
Frr say louder
the way u misunderstood literally everything lol. If Hyesung's mother was in a bad situation IMAGINE HYESUNG. A CHILD. LEFT BEHIND WITH AN ABUSER. AND THEN GRAPED. BY DOJIN. And now he has to listen to his own child turn against him. Hyesung was in an even worse situation than his mom lmao
also saying Hyesung isn't rational is so crazy if anything he is THE ONLY one being rational cause he is the only one who understands the gravity of this situation. If anything Dojin was the irrational and impulsive one deciding to help the person who hurt HIS SPOUSE. In no case should u be supporting the person who hurt ur spouse no matter how much of a hero complex u have. Her other family was so smart for cutting all ties with her icl.
umm we are not sympathizing nor empathizing with abusers ok
Honestly if this sounds that we're immature than yes I'm immature
Because I'm not forgiving someone who choose to abandon me to get a better life
And when realised that I'm living a better life chose to come back
Like no bitch
You better stay tf away from me
And DOJIN?
That fucker has been the problem since the very beginning
He fucking raped hyesung and forced him to keep the baby
No he ain't some saint
He's one of the shittist character I've seen
And no
Not everything can work out with communication
Some things are there which can never be solved through communication
But I believe you can't understand that
And no I can absolutely tell you this with full confidence that "HYESUNG DON'T LOVE JIS MOM" even if she died he would've not cared
AND NO
JUST BECAUSE THAT BITCH IS HYESUNG MOM
DON'T MEAN HYESUNG LOVES HER
AND WOULD FORGIVE HER
literally brooo
All of the 'victims' of the mom cut ties with her (hyesung and her other family), why is it so hard for Byul and Dojin to see that there's A REASON FOR THAT. It's bc they weren't the ones who were directly lied to or hurt so they don't understand the gravity of the situation, which is hella selfish on their part.
the mom is also extremely manipulative and a liar. She abandoned hyesung and made him think she would return, lies completely to her new family and hides a whole ass child and her past, then she does the pitiful act in front of dojin and byul
I'm so upset with dojin and byul rn but that's the only grace I would give them. The mom is clearly very manipulative, so she knows what she's doing and how to tug at their heartstrings to get what she wants. And the 2 of them are stupid enough to fall for it
Finally someone pointed this
Hyesung mom is not some pitiful omega left behind by her family
She's fucking manipulative
She's damn manipulative
Even when she met hyesung she never apologized for abandoning him
Instead she put the blame on hyesungd's father and hyesung that he didn't come to find her
She hid the fact that he had a child from her new family
How do y'all even think that she's simple lady?
People in the comments are so quick to pass judgement. You guys are not mature at all. As readers, we know the whole story yet people in the comment section lack basic critical thinking.Relationships are based on communication and working things out not just divorcing at the first sight of conflict without listening to the other’s side.You need to understand things from everyone’s perspective not just Hyesung’s. Byul is a teenager. He’s emotional and full of hormones right now. He doesn’t know the complete story and its context. That’s why he doesn’t know the difference between Hyesung leaving in the beginning due to the circumstances and postpartum depression and Hyesung’s mom abandoning him. His reaction is normal given his age, immaturity and his incomplete knowledge. Dojin is doing what he can as a loving husband and human. He knows what Hyesung’s mom did. He also knows Hyesung’s reaction. He does not forgive Hyesung’s mom at all but in this story they tell us that Hyesung’s mom was abandoned by her new family after they found out about Hyesung. Hyesung’s mom may have been in a very bad situation. Dojin helped her because at the end of the day she was Hyesung’s mom who looked exactly like Hyesung. Hyesung also loves his mom and that’s why he hates her so much. If something would’ve happened to Hyesung’s mom he would’ve been deeply hurt too even though Hyesung would try to deny it. That’s why Dojin did the minimum of supporting her financially while not maintaining any family ties. He did it so at least she would be safe and have a home. He did not tell Hyesung because he believed Hyesung hadn’t reached a point where he could talk about his mother again rationally. This was wrong of Dojin as he should’ve talked and got Hyesung’s approval but from a Husband’s perspective we understand why he did it. It’s not something that they can’t work out and communicate through.