Babe no, It’s not being small-minded. What dojin did is absolutely grounds for divorce. He had no right to stay in contact with, let alone financially support the woman who abandoned and traumatized his husband.
And “dojin has problems too”? Oh, you mean how he graped and babytrapped a 20-year-old college kid? That’s not very intellectual of him either.
Sorry, I’m not mad at you, just at dojin
yes ofc ik ur not mad i was expecting ppl to also have their own opinions idk maybe it’s just cause i rlly don’t wanna see them break apart cause like they’ve gone through so much. I completely understand that what dojin did went against hyesung but from what I’ve read it seems like all he does is financially support her? Maybe I’ve misread or skipped over some parts but ty for not completely ripping me apart for an opinion
idk I feel like if I was in hyesung’s shoes I would atleast want my mum to be somewhat financially ok? But at the same time she definitely has ulterior motives idk if it’s just me that feels that way because she had so much time to see hyesung but only chose to do so when she found that dojin’s family was wealthy it just feels weird. I don’t rlly like the fact that the author brought back the grandma as some plot to strengthen or break their family structure
I feel like u guys are taking this way too heart especially dojin, u guys want hyesung to crash out but forget that he truly loves byul and dojin. Obviously the two were in the wrong but to just think abt divorce for hyesung and dojin is so small minded, it’s like everyone forgets that dojin also has his own problems it wasn’t as highlighted or as bad as hyesung but it was still issues that affected him. Like dojin was fully prepared to raise byul by himself that’s not easy, had to take care of byul for months whilst most definitely going through post partum anxiety (yes men go through it too) This isn’t too diminish hyesung’s feelings tho cause he absolutely should be mad cause at the end of the day what happened between his mother and him affected him greatly. But I just think u guys need to have some more intellect and sympathy and understand that whatever the reason byul continues to visit and contact his grandmother is still valid and also dojin has never personally gone to see her it mentions that in chapter 4 he just helps her financially. Sorry for going on a tangent but that’s just how I felt abt this chapter