Your own personal trauma doesn’t give you the right to traumatize other people, like how byul is doing to his mom right now. He can have feelings, but his feelings here are unjustified and misdirected.
Yeah, but that also could go both ways Your own personal trauma and dismiss the fact that you caused trauma to another person I feel like they need to have serious talk about it To understand how both of them are traumatized By relatively the same thing not to the same extent. But also, I kind of feel like the reason he said that stuff is because now he has a younger Sibling and same treatment is not being brought up to the sibling like he’s had So that also creates different trauma The mom has trauma too justifiably so but I can’t really be that mad at byul either because he’s a kid as well And still at heart he feels that I can never dismiss either of their feelings The dad like I said, though, that was kind of crazy
I don’t know if I made sense typing is hard
But yeah, I just don’t feel that his feelings are unjustified and I feel that it’s not right to say anybody’s feelings are Not justified and not valid Because everybody’s feelings are
OK, I might have to restate what I said because I literally reread it and it did not make any sense so basically what I was saying was
He has the right to feel some type of way and it’s not invalid. I don’t think the mom has the right to feel another type of way too because like the grandma walked out on him so that’s Justifiable. But Byul is not at fault for feeling some type of way Because he still has trauma, they both have trauma you can’t say that one person’s trauma is More important than somebody else When any sort of trauma causes you to be emotionally Unstable and makes your emotions hard I feel like I understand him, wanting to talk to his grandma because he wants his grandma in his life And the mom has such a good reason for being upset But we shouldn’t say that his feelings are not valid at all And that he doesn’t get the right to feel that And it’s kind of weird that you are saying that his feelings don’t matter and that he should get beat and stuff like that ( Typing in English is not easy for me so my texts probably don’t make sense)
To be honest, a lot of you guys have biases and it doesn’t make it fair to look at the actual Emotional and logical aspects
Idek byul had his reason for emotions and so did the mom the dad is crazy for that tho
But byul I can understand why he want to talk to his grandma what he's said to his mom was crazy but he probably has trauma form hearing he was unwanted. He'allowed to have feelings to and y'all need to understand that to be honest. the kiss was a little rushed tho but still I'm not mad