He's a child. Putting him on some pedestal and expecting him not to hurt others would make him a robot. Even adults hurt each other all the time. he is a better teen portrayal than most high school romances. How will he grow into a better person if he does not make mistakes and learn from it. Adults make mistakes. He did not start to talk to his grandmother to hurt his own mother that wasn't his intention. Same for dojin while hiding was wrong and he knew his own partner would be hurt if he found out. There is a reason he must have weighed the importance. Life's not black and white. He may have thought differently.
I respectfully agree with you
But it was still not okay to say the exact things which would hurt hyesung. Even he knew but still went for it. Yes, he is just a teenager, but that still not excuse his wording. He regretted right away which makes him better than most teenagers ofc. He is such a mama's boy. He should apologise properly and dojin too.
I agree with you too.
At the moment with the height of being caught. All teenager would try to escape their fault by blaming the adults around them. Even if he regretted it right away. There must be somewhere in his heart where he could not understand why one wrong is worse than the other ie his dad talking to his grandmother vs himself. And maybe the conversation of him being abandoned at birth was just glossed over like nothing happened and it left a hole that keeps coming back to haunt him. If a child heard they were a mistake or were never wanted by their mother who they've always known to have loved them and they've always loved their mother, the child would get disillusioned and his why was never addressed why did mom leave why did mom come back, why didn't mom leave their younger sibling, why her and not me. Stuff like this isn't rational just purely emotional.
Teenagers literally lack self control that's literally their schtick. The wanting to not be blamed would be much more important to them then controlling what they say.
Self control is an adult skill
Not saying all he does and says is justified but it's human. The struggle is important for him to grow and actually have conversations about the things that are shaping him.
Hmm I get your. I just wish this gets resolved quickly. My heart can't take it
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Okay so, byul that was so not cool. How could he just say whatever the hell he wants and leaves?? It was always hyesung who protected you when dojin was trying to knock some sense into him. And dojin only kept in contact with hyesung's mother to heal hyesung from his trauma. He thought if he solve the matters with his mother. Hyesung will fully live. And not be tormented. Won't deny, that hiding it from hyesung was a fuckass move. I mean dojin u could do it differently?? Wtf??