Responses
YES!! Idk why people assume pitying is a bad thing!! "you just pity me don't you?!?" Is so overdone like YES I DO pity you!!! Because I care about you!!! And your feelings are also my feelings!! Again because I careeeeeeeeeee
The first Bl manga I saw where they didn't demoralise pitying completely.
Also, if you have trouble trying to think of a gift for your loved ones, try to remember what they talked about themselves. Once, I was anxious about what to give my dad on his birthday. I remembered he often talks about how less he had his favourite food. So I cooked for half a day. It made him happy.