In my opinion, I think it’s because you have expectations for it.
I feel like it’s still setting the stage for her further character development unlike how most reincarnates seem to know and possess skills and knowledge to do something. But the fl is all about revenge and improving herself from the inside first for it.
Also the parts that may seem romantic might be cause it shows that she still has a little bit of interest from her past life which will either begin to fall off with time or get stronger.
But yeah I guess it’s supposed to be a little slow paced in the growth part but there’s a lot of people showing up so it feels a little all over the place rn
Yes that's actually why I don't like it because it's slow paced and all over the place. There's a lot of characters being introduced so suddenly at just the early chapters which is either irrelevant to her revenge or is introduced lackingly. But well, I don't know maybe someday I'll try to read this one again.

I don't know, is it just me or the story is going around and not really focusing to what's planned to happen. Like the guys are there so early and there's too many added scenes. Or is it just because I am expecting something like, "kill the villainess" story-like (not the suicidal part but being unique in her own way). Hays