curious abt this

shizuku_my_beloved November 12, 2025 2:05 pm

where would you guys draw the line for fetishisation when consuming bl or yaoi? i’ve seen so many debates abt this with ppl being either completely on one side or the other.

Responses
    Nanamikentowife November 12, 2025 2:36 pm

    People hating on gay actor for having wife or just gay for the film yes I'm talking about mewgulf

    Yaoi1zlifee November 12, 2025 2:42 pm

    Scat, other than that I'm totally okay with it

    Herein_jing November 12, 2025 2:46 pm

    When people start talking about real gay men like they're fictional characters(assigning roles and stereotyping them). Or those so-called bl shippers who are homophobic or hostile towards other queer people.

    Nanamikentowife November 12, 2025 2:55 pm
    Scat, other than that I'm totally okay with it Yaoi1zlifee

    Can i ask your opinion on amputee tag?

    Yaoi1zlifee November 12, 2025 2:58 pm
    Can i ask your opinion on amputee tag? Nanamikentowife

    Is it a scat? --> yes --> get it away from me
    --> no --> cool, whatever.

    shizuku_my_beloved November 12, 2025 3:00 pm
    Scat, other than that I'm totally okay with it Yaoi1zlifee

    is there actually a manhwa with scat…? does that even exist?

    Suujin November 12, 2025 3:13 pm
    When people start talking about real gay men like they're fictional characters(assigning roles and stereotyping them). Or those so-called bl shippers who are homophobic or hostile towards other queer people. Herein_jing

    +1

    helicopter schlong November 12, 2025 3:34 pm

    when they bring in family members like twins (shaq time-out gif)

    no_lane November 12, 2025 3:42 pm

    when shippers ask gay people if they're bottom or nah just because tgey think theyre quirky or smthing