It really depends on the person. For some people, having multiple lovers over the years is completely normal and nothing unusual, everyone’s experiences and boundaries are different.
But for others, sex is something they can only share when they’re deeply emotionally connected with someone. They need strong feelings: love, trust, or a real bond before being intimate. For people like that, it can be hard to relate to someone who can sleep with partners they weren’t strongly attached to. And if someone says they were “in love” many times, it might come across as less sincere.
As for me personally, I could never fully trust someone who was very casual about sleeping with others or who had many lovers in the past - it just wouldn’t align with my values or what I need in a relationship.
In the end, it really comes down to individual differences. Everyone has their own boundaries, experiences, and comfort levels, and what matters most is finding someone whose values match your own
Having 6 lovers with more than 40 years old... isn't that like completely normal..???