why are you acting like dohu is some innocent puppy? he is a big boy. he can handle the consequences of his actions.
She's saying it as if it wasn't Dohu who messed everything up. Lol
He has suffered more than enough lol. Wasn't 4 years enough? What do yall want him to do, he's being honest and pestering juheon at every chance he gets but some of yall still be bitching about him
why should his honesty and persistence grant him sudden forgiveness?
Exactly.....everyone in the comment is defending Dohu wayyy too much and being all like Dohu should stop chasing and all ....but if I am to be honest, there wasn't that much chasing to begin with....and given that Dohu did mess up, he should work hard to gain Juheon 's trust
Girly i do not give a single fuck if juheon forgives dohu or not. He's not even listening to what dohu has to say. If they don't communicate ts is gonna go on forever. I just need juheon to listen to what dohu has to say and if he still doesn't wanna get together then dohu can just give up and move on. Tho i don't think that's gonna happen. He should have realised by now if dohu really betrayed him he wouldn't still be hung up on him even 4 years later.
if ur ex that played in your face BAD, used ur trauma (unintentionally or not) against u, shows up 4 years later with an “i still like u” you jst gonna believe wtv comes out their mouth? trust doesn’t magically rebuild itself bc the person is suddenly “honest” and persistent now. that’s not how healing OR relationships work. why would juheon believe anything dohu says when he thinks their entire relationship was a ploy jst so dohu can build a character off him? read this story again but with your eyes open and your thinking cap on this time.
Thank god you're not the author of this story lolol. Dohu doesn't know about juheon's trauma because he never talked about it?? Even when juheon found out what was going on 4 years ago he never gave a chance to dohu to explain himself and went abroad on his own. AGAIN im not talking about juheon forgiving dohu, i just need him to listen to what dohu has to say is all. Idc if he forgives him or not, to me the issue is they're not communicating or rather only one of them wants to communicate (you know who). I think it's you who needs to read the story all over again <3 cause that's not how relationship works.
you literally jst repeated urself all over again and still aren’t getting it lol. we’re not talking about forgiveness anymore. you said you want them to sit down and talk, great, we all do. but they HAVE. this is exactly why i’m saying read the story with ur eyes open.
juheon gave dohu MULTIPLE chances to explain himself when he first found out. he was even willing to go BACK to him after everything. they may not have sat down formally face-to-face, but dohu has apologized, he has said what his intentions were and express that despite that he genuinely had feelings for juheon, BEFORE the timeskip. the whole point is that juheon feels used and all his trust in dohu is gone. that’s why he wasn’t hearing him then and definitely isn’t hearing him now.
and idk what ur talking abt with “juheon never expressed his trauma” when he’s literally said again and again and again that ppl have used him his entire life. that’s literally the core of why he loved dohu in the first place. he saw dohu as the one person who wasn’t performing for some hidden agenda, someone who made him feel safe and seen without all the ulterior motives he’s dealt with his whole life.
this isn’t complicated lore lmao… the story is literally telling you what’s going on.
Agree with the previous comment.....and I just wanna add that the problems in their relationship is not communication whatsoever.....even if they sat down communicated properly, their problem wouldn't be solved bcz whatever Dohu says, there is a big chance Juheon won't trust him anyway..... don't forget, Juheon thinks Dohu as some liar and manipulator(sorta)....also why should Dohu just give up after Juheon says no? Dohu messed up, so he should try to mend the relationship and gain back the trust that he broke....
fuck juheon i can treat dohu better