No but fr if you wanna be treated like a mature adult, hold mature adult conversations even if it’s uncomfortable because that’s what adults do. They have uncomfortable discussions in order to maintain a status quo. I’m in my early 20s and if my partner was older than me and we had a disagreement in which I was feeling jealous and neglected (both very valid feelings), I would discuss that with my partner instead of demanding they do things that are unrealistic and unnecessary. The issue isn’t external, it’s internal. IM feeling jealous and neglected so IM the one who needs to voice that and ask for a REASONABLE solution. In this case, introduce me to your employee and ask for the workplace to be a touch free zone where you’re not just grabbing each other at work and as for the neglect, take up a part time job and offer the wages to contribute to the household so the partner can take a few days off and we can coordinate days off and enjoy them together. No creampies, no hickeys in obvious places, no doing it until someone passes out, no leaving it in all night long, no doing it without protection. Those are solutions. Listening to your partners needs will help you get what you want in the long run. Approaching them for sex and only sex will make it feel like intimacy is a chore but approaching them for affection is caring and sweet and makes them want more. It’s the little things that make them feel more relaxed which in turn makes them want you more. He’s young but he’s got 0 creativity.
Acts like a toddler and storms out!
No but fr if you wanna be treated like a mature adult, hold mature adult conversations even if it’s uncomfortable because that’s what adults do. They have uncomfortable discussions in order to maintain a status quo. I’m in my early 20s and if my partner was older than me and we had a disagreement in which I was feeling jealous and neglected (both very valid feelings), I would discuss that with my partner instead of demanding they do things that are unrealistic and unnecessary. The issue isn’t external, it’s internal. IM feeling jealous and neglected so IM the one who needs to voice that and ask for a REASONABLE solution. In this case, introduce me to your employee and ask for the workplace to be a touch free zone where you’re not just grabbing each other at work and as for the neglect, take up a part time job and offer the wages to contribute to the household so the partner can take a few days off and we can coordinate days off and enjoy them together. No creampies, no hickeys in obvious places, no doing it until someone passes out, no leaving it in all night long, no doing it without protection. Those are solutions. Listening to your partners needs will help you get what you want in the long run. Approaching them for sex and only sex will make it feel like intimacy is a chore but approaching them for affection is caring and sweet and makes them want more. It’s the little things that make them feel more relaxed which in turn makes them want you more. He’s young but he’s got 0 creativity.