I dont think hes shitty. He actually seems to care about him, but he is finding hard approaches to show how he cares. Hes too expressional and keeps pouring his love onto him, love he didnt ask for. He just just very very misunderstanding and needs to work through that with him but other than that, I dont think hes actually shitty. Shitty tops treat their bottoms like absolute shit. He's not, he just does stupid shit without thinking
The only thing is—he doesn’t take ‘no’ for an answer and coerces our Bottom to let him touch him by covering him with his pheromones. And even when the Bottom tells the Top to stop—he doesn’t, he barely did rn
But ok! I guess all stories start somewhere and this is what we’re dealing with.