Not him remembering to apologise for yelling but not raping get outta here man

oofbnhahq November 25, 2025 8:35 pm

Not him remembering to apologise for yelling but not raping get outta here man

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    tessaConcon November 25, 2025 10:00 pm

    Coerced maybe, but mind you Dan DID give permission, He knew what the contract entails which was to have sex. (tho in exchange, so again coerced rather than non consensual rape) Was it forceful? Yes, I'm not saying its all full heartedly willing, but It's no different from signing a contract or working for a hostess bar, You may not like it but you DID agree to the terms of it, Knowingly btw.

    I love Dan, he shouldn't have treated that way and his sincerity shouldn't have been taken advantage of, but he's a grown man, older than Jaekyung even. So genuinely, other than money problems, he understood what the deal entails.

    holdthel November 25, 2025 10:02 pm

    I was yelling toward the end, he needs to apologize for the other stuff!

    whatever November 25, 2025 10:07 pm
    Coerced maybe, but mind you Dan DID give permission, He knew what the contract entails which was to have sex. (tho in exchange, so again coerced rather than non consensual rape) Was it forceful? Yes, I'm not sa... tessaConcon

    speak your truth

    oofbnhahq November 25, 2025 10:25 pm
    Coerced maybe, but mind you Dan DID give permission, He knew what the contract entails which was to have sex. (tho in exchange, so again coerced rather than non consensual rape) Was it forceful? Yes, I'm not sa... tessaConcon

    There were still multiple times he'd scream or yell to stop and it'd be ignored entirely alongside his other requests so unfortunately money doesn't justify that at least not imo consent is withdrawn automatically when someone is begging to stop

    I can agree to work at a hostess bar with a contract but it doesn't mean my paycheck excuses a paying customer beating my ass yk !

    tessaConcon November 25, 2025 11:20 pm
    There were still multiple times he'd scream or yell to stop and it'd be ignored entirely alongside his other requests so unfortunately money doesn't justify that at least not imo consent is withdrawn automatic... oofbnhahq

    Again, not saying all what he experienced was good or justifiable, but its the term im just saying.

    Yes, he was No, but look at it from the lens of, what if Jaekyung was gentle with it, would he really be adamantly against it? (again not excusing but its good to look at things as not black and white)

    And With the hostess bar thing, Idk if you dont know but it isn't as easy as "well I dont like it so I'll leave!" Yes they are doing it for the paycheck, unfortunately ppl who do hit you will pay more or pay big, so unless u were just there for fun and not in dire need of money (which is what situation Dan was in) you'd endure it if it meant u can get out of the situation faster (e.g. Paying loans or debts). That's what true desperation feels like.

    Shiki November 26, 2025 12:11 am
    Coerced maybe, but mind you Dan DID give permission, He knew what the contract entails which was to have sex. (tho in exchange, so again coerced rather than non consensual rape) Was it forceful? Yes, I'm not sa... tessaConcon

    I can't believe there's people who understood this story

    Shiki November 26, 2025 12:34 am

    Coercion is ok, as long as it's not RAPE. Jaekyung is not the monster for continuing to have sex with Dan who cries and says no. Real rape victims also cry and scream no but obviously Dan's consent can't be taken away, whatever you sign you have written off for the other person to do what he wills even if without that contract it would be rape

    Shiki November 26, 2025 12:35 am
    Coercion is ok, as long as it's not RAPE. Jaekyung is not the monster for continuing to have sex with Dan who cries and says no. Real rape victims also cry and scream no but obviously Dan's consent can't be tak... Shiki

    So the real victim is Jaekyung.