Tbh most women I know want a provider man like this. When there is a war time, most women have to wait for their husband to come home. There is nothing selfish about waiting for your man. I think it is more selfish to put yourself in danger. He is on the front line to protect you and your home.
If you go and die there (very likely fo Maxi with her 0 survival skill) that would make all his hard work, his sacrifice for nothing.
She was boring and meek due to her abusive upbringing but she is slowly becoming her own person. She is very headstrong. Kind of selfish in some aspects but also selfless in others. Honestly what she did was absurd. She has/had no experience with war or even fending for herself due to her status. She puts on a brave front and gets herself into trouble (like the troll? Was it a troll?) If Leon didn't save her she'd be dead.

I feel so bad for Riftan. All he tries to do is provide and protect Maxi like a good man that he is but she just has to fuck around like a little spoiled kid. It feels like she NEEDS to be in danger like a deer that runs in front of a car to get hit. Like 0 survival skills.
He had to keep himself safe and alive but now on top of it he has to babysit her ass too along with all the other knights.
I'm sorry guys but I think Maxi is radically selfish and self centered. Has she not considered how it makes him feel? She wants to be with him so she will put herself in danger, almost die and then go to even more dangerous place, stress him out, stress herself out and everyone else cos she is lonely??
Like whaaaaa
Bro will sacrifice himself for you and you just can't stay put in a safe space tending to a garden or something??
Guys, tell me if I'm missing something like... I'm crashing out