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from my understanding i don't think they want to do that, but because they look so much like there dead mother. Its a request for when the father's not in his right mind to keep him happy til he dies. The disgust is understandable because his father is feeling on him like a lover. They don't have an identity outside of that

The director situation kinda confusing, at first I thought they want to be a woman but then we see they got disgusted to be touched by their father as a 'woman'. I don't think we can really refer their gender yet, anyone who calls them he or she is not wrong because we definitely need to see more of their story