none of the previous things were consetual either. being blackmailed/coerced into something dosent mean you consent.and penetration or no penetration really doesn't matter, it is sex even without penetration shrimp
That's true, but at least until now there was a sort of mutual agreement in someway, even if twisted. While this time he explicitly said no.
Am I only the one who hope that he didnt actually penetrate him (at least for now)... cause that wouoldn't be consensual.