I feel for seme

baraking December 4, 2025 7:38 am

As a guy who gets mistaken as a girl, and is GAY, it’s heartbreaking being treated differently when guys realize im a guy. Ive had guys who are “straight” very obviously like me and crush on me but they aren’t “gay” and never make the move. Seme is still the same person. I sympathize with uke, he is going through a lot, but i also think uke is very superficial in a way?

If seme was an omega and uke was an Alpha, theyd already be together. But uke’s prejudice not knly drags himself down, but denies himself love and affection from seme as well as treats seme like garbage. Seme isn’t perfect, the scenting thing and such, but i would be lying if my heart wasn’t broken for him. Loving someone and not being loved solely bc of something you can’t control is enough to drive someone crazy.

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    Halo December 4, 2025 7:46 am

    I hope u find someone who likes u for who you are

    imperitus December 4, 2025 10:37 am

    my bad but this will be a rant ..

    it‘s sad for jiwook but if someone doesn‘t like you, they just don‘t like you and you need to let it go. It‘s not up to him to decide what juhyeok‘s orientation actually is. this entire „obviously gay/straight/whatever“ discourse is seriously pissing me off as a lesbian (not directed at you personally but in general) and is imo the root cause why a lot of people take longer to accept their sexual orientation or even develop a hatred towards the lgbtq+ community. it leaves no room for self discovery. I always knew and accepted my orientation but this simply isn’t the case for everyone. if it takes a person 50 years to accept/discover whatever, then that’s how long it takes. no matter how much I like that person, I need to move on.

    juhyeok simply isn‘t ready. he has a goal and his secondary gender is actively making it hard for him. this is not just some prejudice issue. it‘s your body actively working against you, someone continously ignoring your feelings an effectively raping you. juhyeok‘s hatred towards jiwook when they were kids may have been too much. but him hating jiwook after he keeps on pestering him for years makes absolutely sense. I‘d report that asshole and switch schools because imagine having someone you dislike stick to you like glue since childhood. I‘d argue he hates him more because of this and if jiwook actually gave him the space he needed YEARS AGO it wouldn‘t have gotten this bad. juhyeok would have had the space and time to figure his emotions out and maybe even miss jiwook at some point.

    so jiwook isn‘t just not perfect. he‘s a predator but gets the baby treatment because he‘s „in love“. As a lesbian, I get why you empathize with him. it isn‘t easy. but I‘m pretty sure you didn‘t pester these people for years as jiwook did. this is a completely different situation and deserves little to no empathy imo

    sottovoce December 4, 2025 3:18 pm
    my bad but this will be a rant ..it‘s sad for jiwook but if someone doesn‘t like you, they just don‘t like you and you need to let it go. It‘s not up to him to decide what juhyeok‘s orientation actual... imperitus

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