Andrew is genuinely too obsess with Luke he wants Luke all to himself and want Luke to not have friends bc they’re getting in the way of their relationship Luke has other deep relationships other than Andrew their relationship is going to become toxic if Andrew continues to be codependent on Luke he needs to meet new people instead of wanting Luke to be with him all the time Andrew reminds me of those Bfs who wants their Gfs to with them at all times making them cut off their friends and etc Luke never dismissed Andrew he just wanted to hear his friend side of the story instead of just blindly hating his friend without no explanation it’s childish of Andrew to run away even tho all Luke said was he wants to navigate the situation
Andrew definitely had good reasons to dislike Bruno. Andrew also wasn’t upset at Luke having friends, it was Luke expecting Andrew to befriend Luke’s friends that upset him.
We also don’t know if Andrew ran away, we don’t know what’s going on with Andrew at the moment.
It's the audacity to believe Andrew needs to stop being himself but Luke should stay the same when he's clearly hurting someone he claims he likes that is sending me. Relationships are about accommodation and compromise. Your argument is all about logic and devoid of emotion. Luke is not making Andrew feel secure then somehow it's Andrew's fault bffr. Can you blame him for being heavily attached when it seems his feelings are dismissed and he's trying to be closer?Would this be an issue if Luke saw things from Andrew's perspective??? My point stands Luke needs to think if he wants a relationship or just wants to be wanted.
Luke never yelled at Andrew even though Andrew basically attacked his friend right in front of him instead he went to privately talk to Andrew Luke never once call Andrew a liar he just wanted more context on the situation Andrew was the one that felt personally attacked when Luke mentioned how he needed to trust more ppl and talk to ppl bc of his trauma so he ran away I’m sorry in a relationship u shouldn’t be codependent on your lover that’s toxic and that’s exactly what Andrew is Luke has a Whole life another than being a bf he’s a theater student with friends he trust he can’t just dedicate all his time to him bf bc that’s always going to end up toxic readers need to understand just bc a bottom isn’t codependent on their top and have a life outside their relationship doesn’t mean they don’t love them atp im convinced ppl only want Luke to be a stay at home bf and only overt his attention to Andrew no one else
Not everything is about communication. That's the default settings of bl fans when the couple is having a tough time. Sometimes it's bearing the consequences of your actions. Luke been prioritising his people more than Andrew and you could see that from a mile away. What's the point of a relationship of body to body and romantic emotional attachment if they will be treated like everyone else? I need Luke to think thoroughly if he really wants a relationship or if he just wants someone that wants him. They aren't the same thing. A healthy relationship is not being dismissive of the other person's feelings even if you think it makes logical sense. An emotional relationship is for emotions of course the emotional understanding should be accompanied with discernment.