doing shitty things doesnt make u a shitty person
straw man argument...
You sure do have a selective reading huh. First noticed this when you replied to my first comment, love how i asked “if you understood jihan then why’d you question his behavior” and you gave me the most far fetched answer Thing is, i really want a peaceful conversation and would refuse to call this an argument because your answers actually make sense but only if you look at it in a one sided perspective because none of your replies gave me an actual answer. You kept giving me answers that i already know and yet you “understood” what jihan is feeling but is questioning his actions…? I’m explaining it in the most simplest words and i hope i gets through you! Because honestly this is what you sounded like when i first read your comment “yeah i know jihan’s feeling really bad because of what he went through but I HAVE BEEN ON THE SAME SITUATION so why is he doing all this shitty acts?”. Because if you did know how jihan is feeling you’d know his “shitty” acts are uncontrollable because he is being driven by emotions, if you knew that why question it? It’s like pointing out the obvious while also making the story about yourself by even mentioning you’ve been on the same situation when no one asked… in the nicest way possible, i’m being genuine right now i hope you get what me and the people in the replies are trying to explain to you.
Originally I didn’t want to call out my comment that I actually directed towards you but I do have to admit it is silly to say jihan is in the wrong in some of these situations. He’s has the most right to feel and be this way right now
I never questioned him as in asking why is he doing this, I really do understand where he is coming from because I’ve been there, and I mean also just read the story lol
Correct me if I’m wrong, but it seems like you think his actions are excused because of his feelings, which is just not right
It was honestly just one little thing, still shitty, but it’s not that big of a deal, nobody’s perfect. It was unnecessarily blown up from my one single comment on it
And you don’t get to pull the just trying to be nice and peaceful card when you were just saying I failed English class and that no one asked, not once have I tried to make a personal attack
Don’t even get my started with you, last time I checked you were camping under every single comment, calling anyone who had different opinion than you a dumbass… girl… that’s just bullying… you’re being a mean.
i get 100% get jihan being sad over losing someone he cared for been there done that but expecting him to still want to be friendly when hes currently in the process of moving on is shitty