Pls help a girl outt

-`ᰔ´- December 8, 2025 9:50 am

So like I started talking to someone this year
He is really really sweet
But he started not to text me frequently now
Like I don't need him to text me like 24/7
But at least some days would be great
It's been a week since he last texted, and he wouldn't even have texted me if his friend wouldn't have take his phone and send me a message herself
I seriously thought it was him that texted but unfortunately
And we cant even see each other due to some reasons, plus we are not in the same school
We started talking because of my french tuition teacherr (love him)
But like what do I do
IDEK IF WE ARE TOGETHER OR NOT
Like he didn't say anything
He even bought me a gift for my birthday
Btw I'm 17 feel free to judge me or something but give me some real adviceee

Responses
    silent_wisp December 8, 2025 10:06 am

    Ask. So many of life’s problems can be fixed if you just ask directly bouncing around subjects and trying to send hints will waste YEARS of your life!!!!! It’s not rude to just go “hey, you havent texted in a while, are you alright?”
    Or “hey, are you still interested? You havent talked to me in a while… :(“ or something.

    -`ᰔ´- December 8, 2025 10:17 am
    Ask. So many of life’s problems can be fixed if you just ask directly bouncing around subjects and trying to send hints will waste YEARS of your life!!!!! It’s not rude to just go “hey, you havent texted... silent_wisp

    THANKYOUUU I'm going to ask him today itselff

    Focalors December 8, 2025 10:43 am
    THANKYOUUU I'm going to ask him today itselff -`ᰔ´-

    give us the update(๑•ㅂ•)و✧

    -`ᰔ´- December 8, 2025 11:17 am
    give us the update(๑•ㅂ•)و✧ Focalors

    Yesss I willll

    Jiyeonieya December 8, 2025 12:14 pm

    Honestly just initiate a convo anything, though i must advice if youre the one always initiating every convo maybe you should think abit more. Like srs dont let yourself get played

    -`ᰔ´- December 8, 2025 12:38 pm
    Honestly just initiate a convo anything, though i must advice if youre the one always initiating every convo maybe you should think abit more. Like srs dont let yourself get played Jiyeonieya

    At first he usually was the one who text first, I think he knew I was very introverted and all
    And I felt it wasn't right for him to always initiate the convo so I started to message first and eventually I finally felt like, maybe was more open up to him? I felt comfortable and all
    But now he rarely text unless I text first that's why I didn't know what to doo
    But thankyouu, I will see what he says laterr

    Jiyeonieya December 8, 2025 12:46 pm
    At first he usually was the one who text first, I think he knew I was very introverted and allAnd I felt it wasn't right for him to always initiate the convo so I started to message first and eventually I final... -`ᰔ´-

    Ahhh! Okay so not much of a problem but probably give it abit of a break too, like u said dont need to text 24/7 so maybe they're just busy if they did that before and someone actually interested in you will find ways to talk to you and make the convo longer. If you're interested in him, flirt a little lol sometimes guys back away if they notice the girl is too friendly. (meaning they think its friendzoned) but yeah! And btw if the flirting or wtv gets abit too sexual, dont be afraid to set boundaries if ur uncomfortable. Also talk to ur friends abt it! Sometimes showing ur convo to ur friends, can help you out alot.

    -`ᰔ´- December 8, 2025 12:49 pm
    Ahhh! Okay so not much of a problem but probably give it abit of a break too, like u said dont need to text 24/7 so maybe they're just busy if they did that before and someone actually interested in you will fi... Jiyeonieya

    Okayy thank you so muchhh<33