Responses
A man on edge can be cautious or agressive. They're on edge because they're mistrusting. That's something they gotta work on themselves. Don't 'fix' them. It doesn't always go well, because they would only work on themselves if they decide to work on it. Some people maybe lucky to convince them to work on it, but most don't. I'd rather advise you to not bother as well. It's not your project to work on afterall.

But the ladies in the bath were giving real advice, everyone should take it to heart