Thank you! It feels like most folx are one-sidedly blaming Daehan.
that’s unfortunate, not saying Daehan is perfect, but in a past setting where the world is quite homophobic, there’s little Daehan, people are stating boundaries, but forget that Daehan is in the physical department, and if you know anything about sports, you know how homoeroctic it is, while remaining staunchly homophobic, so again, what else can Deahan do, the only resolution is announce their relationship publicly which is not possible… except for close friends/families, and if you’re going to lash out every time your significant other shakes hands with, or touches, another person then we got bigger issues, because insecurities like that in relationships will be it downfall… also speaks a bit, about people’s perception of bi folks, which the assumption that everyone believes everyone is (or you) are attracted to everyone, as Daehan has dated both women and men, which may be the reason for the negative sentiments towards him as I have noticed an odd trend with BL characters that had past relationships, especially with women, being treated negative by fans/fanbase/fandoms,
Oof typos are bad in here, sorry, hopefully it is still understandable
I’ve seen quite a number of comments about the futileness of the current arc, and i want to state that it is not useless, misunderstanding, miscommunication, or randomly added for angst. In the context of their argument makes sense for a official breakup, because your significant other should not be obsessively jealous about your friends, especially considering it is in the past so theirs little of control to do because verbally announcing their relationship would be reserved for close friends/families, and regardless of the friend’s intentions, one of the foundation of a relationship is trust, and if you cannot trust your significant other to not disrespect your relationship, and send out threats of breaking up as retaliation when attempting to communicate together, especially as the conversation was a whole lot of talking to them, rather than talking with them… then let’s take a step back, i do not care what’s going on, you don’t do that to significant other, even if you apologize (which he barely did as he restarted the previous argument with his insecurities shown by his jealousy) so i am so glad there’s a proper break, it’ll be a learning experience, i.e. growth in character and in their relationship