The World is drowning in porn and anti feminism. Korea is incel driven and their fetishes are exposed through lots of their webtoons, and the webtoon is too eroticized which men do to women.
I don't deny the fact that women can internalize harmful patriarchal behaviours, but my instincts tell me it was written by a man.
I am sorry that you went through the same as the MCs:(
I hope that you're in a healthy relationship
yes haha thank u and im okay now!! it was about 3 years ago and just like the mcs we broke up nd got back together a couple times before ending it for good. nd yeah i do get your point but i haven't researched enough about the author to know if it's a man or not. i dont think bringing up the eroticism is valid tho, most lesbians and sapphics (including me) i know are pretty sexual. i think the portrayal of sex here is pretty realistic too like i dont think a man would write about two girls who are tops and can't get it to work as well as this cause ive been through that too and it's painfully accurate to my experience so i think maybe give this a second chance to read it through a different lens :) not trying to invalidate your point, i think it's important to address misogyny as well!!
"i dont think bringing up the eroticism is valid tho, most lesbians and sapphics (including me) i know are pretty sexual. i think the portrayal of sex here is pretty realistic too like i dont think a man would write about two girls who are tops and can't get it to work as well as this cause ive been through that too and it's painfully accurate to my experience"
LOUDER.
This was definitely written by a queer woman. I found every aspects (including sex) very realistic/relatable as a lesbian myself. The only thing that frustrated me before was joohee's behaviour but I can see her character growth.
So how about..thinking twice before you come to a stupid conclusion? :/
"Peak"
And women can internalize harmful patriarchal behaviours and propaganda like being forced to shave, plastic surgeries, bdsm, and endorsing porn behind "this is my choice".
Look, I respect your opinion because at least, you're polite unlike 2 smart asses, but with the incel culture in Korea, you can't blame the readers to guess the gender of the writer is 99% a man, and 1% woman with shitty writing and internalized misogyny.
And yaoi is unrealistic and homophobic too, written by straight women (90%), and consumed by women mostly, which is harmful.
That "2 smart asses" line better not be referring to me, because I'm stupid and that would be disrespectful towards smart people, just saying.
Also, just a heads up, if you want to find out if the author of any manga/hwa/hua is a man or woman, try looking the story up on m@ngaupdates and clicking the author profiles, sometimes it says if they're a woman or man, though tbh it usually says that info is "not available."

Clearly written by a man who consumes lesbian porn and has never interacted with women.