bro palma my dawg pulled up with a whole paragraph about something irrelevant and then said i'm wrong after i repeated a conclusion backed for decades by media-psychology research, books, and highly cited frameworks in academic journals. and all they can say is “you're wrong. read a few books” in response and then block me
Girl, who told you not to care about rape?
I said you don't get to judge someone's moral standing from how they talk abt a fictional character and think it's accurate or psychology-validated. Which is what you assumed and did, YOU made it personal, can't you recognize that?
They're not taking abt a real person, some ppl can use fiction as an outlet to safely explore all sorts of behaviors and mindsets, without causing any harm to others or their own mentality, since they can differentiate reality from fiction. Unless they consume ONLY fictional rape kink stories on the daily, as well as listening to and associating with opinions of unrepentant rapists irl, or ppl who promote sexual abuse, there's no inherent harm done!
If you don't understand that and/or it worries you that someone could speak like that even in the realm of fictional content, then ASK THEM if they'd condone or do something like that IRL. That's all u can do, apart from simply not interacting with them if it's something that bothers you.
Scenario 1:
(Person) Damn, rape that fictional guy again please.
(You) Oh so you condone rape! You don't care abt victims! You're a messed up person irl!
Scenario 2
(Person) Damn, rape that fictional guy again please.
(You) It makes me uncomfortable reading that take, cause while I know it doesn't define your character as a person nor do I assume that you condone it, I tend to view these incidents realistically even when depicted in fiction. So, I feel terrible for the fictional guy who went through that and angry at the fictional guy who did it and hope he pays for it and they get away from each other asap.
Do you see the DIFFERENCE??? If you don't, then idk, look into it and stop making it into other people's problem
Wtf r u talking abt? Can't drop the act when being faced with your incorrect assumptions? Damn..
What I'm talking abt is an issue reported recently and involves people whose views and approach toward fiction have many similarities to yours, as seen in this thread. Hence, the relevance. Is that too difficult a connection to make? I'm sorry, I'll dumb it down for you next time.
Don't run away you fucking loser.
There’s a lot of interesting statements from you that I’m itching to quote:
1. "I said you don't get to judge someone's moral standing from how they talk abt a fictional character and think it's accurate or psychology-validated."
-> I need to remind you, everyone on this site is a judger, including you and me. We all naturally judge, whether the story makes us happy, sad, angry, whatever. People have the right to say anything, even if it’s the dumbest shit ever.
-> And what do you mean by “judging someone’s moral standing” when they’re literally supporting rape regardless of whether it’s “just how they talk”?
2. "That's all u can do, apart from simply not interacting with them if it's something that bothers you."
-> THAT’S EXACTLY WHY I made my own comment, but you came in and judged me like I’m the problem, when you were the one who crossed my line first. You’re the one making a mess and then blaming me. Don’t pull the victim card. I can talk calmly, like I did with @Meow, but you came in with fire.
3. Scenario 1 and 2
-> I don’t give a fuck about your scenarios if you want to keep that mindset, but here, let me give you a better example:
“Damn, rape that fictional guy again please.”
Read it again until your cracked brain unites.
“Damn, rape Palma again please.”
To be fucking honest, I like toxic yaoi with dark psychological approaches like this. And I was pointing out people who normalize rape, not the story or the characters because I damn well know it’s canon.
4. "Do you see the DIFFERENCE?? If you don't then idk, look into it and stop making it into other people's problem."
-> SHUT IT AND STOP PULLING THE VICTIM CARD. I’m not the one making a problem, you came in and caused a fuss. If you really wanted to talk to me, you should’ve talked calmly instead of arranging a whole essay to force your beliefs on me while saying I’m “failing to learn my lesson.”
That's not how discussing works if you actually want us to exchange thoughts. Don’t excuse the attitude just because you hide behind the “this is an illegal site so everything is okay” logic. That doesn’t magically make MORALLY FUCKED UP things suddenly excusable.

Ugh, I don’t get why people who dislike comments from others who are spitting facts. I can’t wrap my head around the fact that some people even support Pyeonghwa for "raping" him again, like do you want to get raped too? Ofcourse the people who are complaining know they’re reading a toxic BL, but at least they are still in the right mind, not like ‘yeah, go rape him again' like the fuck??