Agreed, I was saying the same thing. Like why deceive him with words of love when he knew you married him to escape your father?? Makes no sense. The reason she chose to marry him was because she knew his character and that he would be loyal to her regardless. That's why she put in such a show to get him to fancy her, and now this?? Like come on, you have no reason to be mad at him. He stated he doesn't want to sleep with someone without love, then you lied for the bed
Exactly!!! He knew about her situation and so he definitely knew why she married him. That I love you shit from her came out nowhere and was so unnecessary in the aftermath, if she was going to say such cruel shit about love and men— even if I understand that it stems from her horrible trauma. But all of that was so unnecessary, and again, throwing a tantrum because he doesn’t touch you, while stating how horrible men are and that they are only capable of cruel things is so… idk, weird? Like he’s trying to respect her so much now that he overheard, gently pushing her away, taking care of her and she’s like ‘mimimi why doesn’t he touch me?’ Girl, WHY do you want him to touch you after all that crap you said about him and men in general? And the fact that she hasn’t figured out that he overheard everything is also odd, I mean, wouldn’t that explain his sudden change in behavior?? She wasn’t exactly being quiet about her words.
I’m not trying to victim blame or anything, truly. I understand that she can’t love him because of what happened to him, but then at least tell him that beforehand??? You’re saying that you’re *trusting* his trust but not his love, alright, I get that, but deceiving him when Flint had absolutely no expectations of being loved? He accepted that and you’re still using love for everything? And top of that throwing a tantrum when he doesn’t touch you? Like yes, marital duties whatever but there was never the discussion that she had to fulfill them every night or every two nights? A bit ridiculous if you ask me. And yes, if the FL was a man, I’d find this shit just as annoying, so don’t come with the misogyny bs.