Hard agree, like yes, we read fucked up shit because we want to enjoy and that's one of the kind we like but that doesn't mean we have to ignore the problem dynamics in some stories bro, not just yaoi but Yuri and hentai as well. We're readers for Christ's sake, most stories are made not just for the author, but for who they cater to as well. We have rights to critisize it IF NEEDED.
You worded this very well and it's extremely valid. People will get defensive so fast when people complain about rape being in a story. We aren't supposed to enjoy it, we're supposed to feel disgusted over it. I mean you can tell incheol in this case, doesnt enjoy this. he's disgusted by it, but people still think its okay, which is insanity?? Atleast to me it is.

Yaois def rotted your brains in the way yall immediately get defensive and insult people when they try to say a word about rape dynamics in BLs.
1. Anyone can be disappointed about anything, stop with the "dont read it then" bullshit, people are allowed to criticize what they think it needs to be criticized.
2. Just because a story has rape in it as a DARK THEME, or "it was expected", doesnt mean people have to LIKE and ENJOY it? Did yall forget rape is a disgusting traumatic experience or everyone has to have a rape fetish to have permission to read yaois?? I can still enjoy a story without romanticizing the abuse in it, CAUSE IT ISNT SUPPOSED TO BE ROMANTICIZED, yall say it yourself, its a dark theme, but yall make it seem da YOU HAVE TO romanticize it otherwise you cant read it or comment on it.
It's like reading or watching a series with murderers and I have to beat my meat on it otherwise I cant watch it.
Maybe you should take a break from this type of content and accept your porn addiction.